Is it normal to want to have sex with other women being married?

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I've been married to my wife for about 10 years. She's 10 years younger than I am. Our sex life isn't the best...I've lost interest on her sexually and I have focused on other women...I mean fantasizing about them. I haven't cheated on her and wouldn't like to think of losing her over a stupid affair. I guess what I want to know is if thisbis normal or should I fulfill this desire with another woman to get it out of my system. I'm very confused and frustrated. When I have sex with my wife I find myself thinking abouy other women. I need the puvlic opinion on this one.any suggestions?

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  • mokuton
    7 years ago

    Any ways just tell your wife if she dosent bang you satisfactorily you will get it from some where else.

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  • randypete
    13 years ago

    dont get caught

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    • mokuton
      7 years ago

      Good advice bro, not getting caught will be the first priority in cheating.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    I don't think it's abnormal, per se, but it could potentially be very damaging for both you and your wife. If things have fizzled out a little then by far the best course of action is to put in the effort and communication to get things back on course.

    The lazy way is just to find another woman. If you think you're "getting it out of your system", though, you'd be kidding yourself. What you'd actually be doing is crossing that boundary into saying that cheating on your wife is an indelicacy you're now prepared to accept. And from then on, all bets are off as you know you can cheat as many times as you want.

    I'd strongly urge you to take the difficult way (make things better in your existing love life) rather than the lazy way (just find someone new). Put it like this - for the sake of 90 minutes with a random stranger are you willing to forsake the entire future with your wife? Would you gamble your house on the toss of a coin? And that's only bricks and mortar. So why be so reckless with the heart of someone you love, and your own heart, for that matter?

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