Is it normal to want to have sex with my 'sister'?

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First off, I would like to just say that I was adopted when I was 3 so I am not related by blood to my 'sister' and that's why I think this is an option for me.

Basically, I am a very lonely kid and I haven't really got many friends and so I've become 'addicted' to lying in order to make friends and try and impress people. I was talking to this girl on snapchat and I really liked her and so I wanted to impress her so she would carry on talking to me. To do this I started a game with her where we had to ask and answer kinky questions with each other, at one point she just asked me what the kinkiest thing I had ever done was and in response I told her that I once had sex in a starbucks toilets with my then girlfriend while she was tied up and blindfolded when in fact I've never even kissed a girl. Anyway, a few of my so called friends found these messages on my phone and started to constantly make jokes about it and it has started to make me feel really insecure.

I started to see my adoption as a way out, as we weren't actually related it isn't incest right? Recently she has started to seem very very sexy to me and I don't know how to go forward from here. Should I just confront her about the situation or should I ask her out on a date like the cinema?

Please be kind this is really putting myself out there.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    It sounds like you're considering sex with your sister only because she's convenient. I'm sure a lot of sex happens between siblings, both adopted and blood-related. Sometimes this works out fine for all involved, but sometimes it causes huge problems.

    I think you should consider the possibility that you might be seeing her acting sexual towards you, when she's only messing around or teasing you. Girls do that sometimes. It's also possible you're just feeling so desperate that you're seeing sexual signals where there's nothing at all going on. Guys do that sometimes.

    Having said that, it is possible that she sees you as a potential sexual partner. The only way you'll know is if you respond to her signals and see how she reacts. Obviously, you'll have to approach this very carefully, since the last thing you want is for her to blow you off as a pervert and run to your parents to complain about what you've done or said. If she's flaunting her body, take your time looking at what's on view, then give her some eye contact and an appreciative smile. If she's sitting very close or touches you, don't flinch away and maybe try mirroring her contact, but don't push things further. If she does something that gives you an erection, reposition it in your pants in an obvious but not too blatant way.

    In other words, don't take the initiative, but respond positively to what she does, and see how she reacts.

    Obviously, a lot of this depends on how old you two are. If you're both sixteen, that's one thing. If you're eighteen and she's eleven, then you definitely need to take a step back and have a hard look at yourself.

    You also need to consider how your parents would react if they discovered something was going on between you two. It's always safest to assume that nothing will remain a secret forever.

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  • cipro
    5 years ago

    Do it. Get her drunk and use a condom.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    She is not blood but your parents may have a different view. It's amazing the number of people who have had sex with a sibling.

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    • Nickvey
      5 years ago

      yep about 50 percent of the women i bedded had sex with either dad or a brother. man did i wake up fast as i never had a sister and i still hate my mother, but my older brother wanted me to be his gay fuck buddy. fortunately my dad found out he was fucking mom and kicked his horney ass out of the house as soon as he started shit with me. he just needed a good reason he could live with.

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago

    suppose you impregnate her with your son, and she doesn't want to murder it just to please you, what then , you going to kill, marry,or fuck her because, although thats a game school teacher play with students, its a battle you will have to have with her . welcome to the real world.

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    • joshwright
      5 years ago

      yall already know what it is

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    • joshwright
      5 years ago

      nah m9 i will push her down the stairs whole lotta gang shit y'all know what I'm saying

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