Is it normal to want to have my boyfriend go all christian grey on me?
I read the 50 shades of grey books and i found that im really turned on by them and when i think of the books,iimmediately think of him, and wish he woulddo that to me.
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I read the 50 shades of grey books and i found that im really turned on by them and when i think of the books,iimmediately think of him, and wish he woulddo that to me.
Okay. Christian Grey is a stalker who doesn't take "No" for an answer. That's not what BDSM is about. If that's your fetish, that's it. Some people have "rape fantasies".
As long as you understand that BDSM isn't stalking or disregarding what people want, then yeah. I do find it hot for a guy to tie my hands together or handcuff me while his body is pressing me into the bed.
That's hot. Undoubtedly. But he's going to stop when I say it.
Christian Grey isn't the best example for some kinky sex, with sex you need to be clear on the rules and safe-words and never feel threatened or forced into something.