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Is it normal to want to have fellatio with another man but not do it out of fear ofgetting some disease? The few times I've done it with another man, I enjoy it, but at the same time I fear bringing home some unwanted stdi. I enjoy handling another guy's dick, and his handling mine.
It's normal if you're a gay men. You don't want to bring home an STD, who are you afraid of giving an STD?
I think it's normal to want to do it, but I haven't acted on it yet. I get the whole "it's cheating" thing, but what if you confess to these fantasies and of course probably end up divorced, then try being a little cocksucker, but realize it's not really for you? Then what do you do. Your life is ruined and everybody assumes you're gay, but you're really not. Wouldn't it be better to try this lifestyle out several times and find out if you like it or if it's just a passing fancy? If you genuinely love it and don't plan on stopping, then and only then should you confess to being gay. There is too much of a stigma on gays these days, fair or unfair, for someone to come out before he's 100% positive.
You must understand, I am married to a woman, but several years ago I found it fun to play with a man. But condoms don't fit on me so well due to an ED problem. So what do I do? Make sure we shower well before we begin to play? What other way is there to avoid infections?