Is it normal to want to have a gay experience and be straight?

I am a happily married guy, I know I love my wife. I am just really curious about giving guys head and having sex with them.

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Based on 68 votes (58 yes)
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  • Flutterhigh and dappled are my two favorite commenters on this site... And now they are going against each other.

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  • tbdmaybe

    Just curious as to what you have decided. I'm in the same boat. I too am married and have thoughts of trying sex with another man as well. You're not alone. Keep us posted. I'm sure many feel the same way but are scared to admit it. I'm a little freaked out myself.

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    • suburbianguy

      Well I did actually try it out. I found out what I like, what I don't like. I don't have any regrets, I found out I am kind of bi. If you can be that way, my wife doesn't know and that's ok, she doesn't need to know. Because I'm sure you are curious, no I didn't take it! lol

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      • tbdmaybe

        Thanks for the update. Surprisingly I was not curious about you taking it, just how it all worked out. How did you go about finding your partner? I just joined the yahoo bimarried egroup. I've found some good info there. Feels good I'm not alone.

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        • suburbianguy

          I used a Craigslist as it seems to be the most hassle free way of finding a partner. Is it possible to PM someone on this site? I would enjoy continuing correspondence with you.

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          • tbdmaybe

            I don't think there is a way to PM someone. I see a member chat but apparently I've not been a member long enough to access that.
            Craigslist huh? I'd be afraid of what kind of person I'd find there. Of course that could be said anywhere. I'll see where this bimarried website takes me than maybe give Craigslist a try. I'm from a relatively small area so it may be hard to find someone.

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            • suburbianguy

              True that, I am very scrutinizing while on the site. It is very risky to meet someone from the internet. Unless you are willing to pay for a site I guess.

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  • danh34me

    IIN? sure I think every guy out there would love to have some dudes hairy ball sack in his mouth or 5 tiny inches of semi-hard cock in his ass, but dude your married, wtf are you thinking?

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    • bigtoy

      Every guy??? Count me out, bro...

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      • #1A$$HO!@

        ever heard of sarcasim?

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  • holmesm

    I think it's normal to be curious about the things we have never done. It's part of what makes us human. However, curiosity and desire are two separate things. First you must really ask yourself, if placed in a situation where this were to occur, if it's something you'd be interested in or if this purely just a fantasy. If you do happen to be suppressing latent homosexual feelings then denying it will only make these urges stronger.

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  • AngAnders112

    there's nothing wrong with being curious, wanting to experiment and try out something new. a lot of guys share your same curiosity.

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  • rawr123451

    Talk to your wife about a 3 way and see what she says? She loves you, she won't care if you decide that your bi

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    • suburbianguy

      She won't go for that.

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  • 41ph4m413

    Don't be gay bro it'll ruin your marriage. You'll feel better staying married

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  • suburbianguy

    Ok so first of all flutterhigh, you can go get fucked I don't give a shit what you have to say. Second thank you everyone else for some reasonable input. Keep it coming

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