Is it normal to want to hate my boyfriend?

ok so heres the deal... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months. And I am wayyyy too in love with him. I would do anything for that guy just to get a smile in return. Oh man! I love him so much Im obsessive. Sometimes I forget hes human and expect too much from him. I forget that his world doesnt revolve around me I guess its cuz mine revolves around him. point is. sometimes I nickpick at all the little imperfections about him, I get sooooo wroked up about them. I argue with him, its almost like I find things about him just so I can stop being in love with him. Its so strange. Its as if I want to hate him. Is this normal?

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34% Normal
Based on 41 votes (14 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • 4theloveofdez

    Nobody's perfect, and have you considered how that makes him feel for you to belittle him in that way? Id cut that out, before he decides the relationship isn't worth going through that constantly.

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  • He may be awesome but he's only human! Try to give the poor guy a break.

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  • GypsyGirl

    Not a good thing to do. No. You would like for him to nit pick at you? Probably not youd be like wth whats wrong with me and search somewhere else for someone who will make them feel good about themselves not make them feel like crap. Surprised he is still with you and allows you to continue nit picking his self esteem must be pretty low to even continue.

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  • You probably hate him cause you are fucking him too much. This causes an opposite type reaction. - Try not to be all over his dick for while and try to become familiar with who he is.

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  • DJTEEL

    you expect everything he does and believes and feels to be identical to the way you believe and feel do things.and you don't understand the differences and why,when you hear them see them,etc....he's not you..accept that.if you continue to nitpick ,you'll find yourself looking in the mirror wishing you had somebody again,like you used to do..remember??

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  • almostunreadable

    This is because you don't love him, you love your emotions.

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  • EbonyMT

    I do similar things. I want to hate him and feel like I do at times. I hate being put down and shit.

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  • Mel

    Its NOT normal, unless you want to be lonely & single. How would you feel if he did that to you. Put yourself in his shoes, & treat him how youd want to be treated.

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  • hotgurl123

    ya i think its normal i do the same thing with all my bfs nd dats prolly y im always single cuz i always find something about them that i dont like and make a big deal bout it!

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