Is it normal to want to hangout with a new boyfriend alot starting out

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I have just started dating a new guy that i can already tell is perfect for me and i really like him. This is why I would like to hang out with him a lot more, to see if there could be anything wrong in our relationship. I am a somewhat impatient person, not sexually but just communication wise. We have only been hanging out like twice a week and i want more! I get very jealous and mad if he doesn't ask to hang out, it makes me think he is less interested in our relationship than I am. Is this normal or am I just paranoid?

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    You should be paranoid, you sound clingy. Careful you don't scare him away.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    You sound possessive. I don't see why any guy would want to date you.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    It takes people time to grow into a relationship. Changing his life overnight into one where you are everpresent is liable to make him feel suffocated.

    If you think he's the right one, the best thing you can do is try to overcome your impatience and let things develop at a natural pace.

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  • KeyboardSolo
    13 years ago

    While it's possible you really are too clingy for his comfort, keep in mind that society pressures guys to act disinterested. We're told over and over that looking too eager or being too honest about how much you like a girl is a bad move, and unfortunately women seem to confirm that it's a bad move...

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