Is it normal to want to go back to my ex

I keep going back to my ex boyfriend. He made me choose between being with him and joining my sorority, he smashed my painting easel, and because i joined the sorority he kept rubbing another girl in my face and telling me he was sleeping with her. i don't know if he did or not. He's also a drug dealer. I keep going back to him because he tells me how much he loves me and I believe him and I can't stop going back. Most recently he promised he'd never talk to that girl again, but he was lying to me cause he did. Sometimes I feel like this is all my fault. Why do I want him back and how do I stop going back to him?

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  • squirtle

    you can stop going back to him by stop going back to him.

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  • Askyouknow

    You don't want to go back to him easy rat him out....but becareful though...

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  • gako

    Obviously this isn't normal. You should know that already. They say love makes you blind. So in this case switch the lights on and look what's infront of you!

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  • Gidget

    FORGET HIM

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  • DES

    Fuck girl say NO your not taking his crap that's what assholes do make you feel like it's your fault put the blame where it goes cowgirl up you are a woman of wroth and no one can put ou down if you don't let them

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  • viewsonic

    it is not your fault girl . man i wish i had a girl like you ! anyways no girl im a guy and i will tell you that this guy may be cool to be with but you will get into nothing but trouble, people show there best side when they meet someone so maybe he may get worse. i cant speak for you but if i know what i do know (marred for 7 years ) i know what you will deal with if you stay !!! i would never talk to my girl like that shit . i understand you are young ( i am not old lol )
    so understand that the older you get the more you will understand. SERIOUSLY girl you and this man do not fully understand what love is and what it means and there for it won't work .
    i am not saying leave him i can say i learned so much from being with someone like that .. i kidd you not i still love this girl soo much but after years it thought me a lesson
    and for that i am happy . i would just take it for what it is shorty . you are young and in love ...........

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  • Scarlett01

    Maybe u should raise your standards. He sounds like he's not even worth the stress he's putting u through. And once a liar, always a liar.

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  • JuliusE

    Your in college and dating a drug dealer? Seriously, grow up. This isn't high school anymore, guys who deal drugs are just low-lifes who are probably not going anywhere. He sounds like a total degenerate, unloyal, selfish immature fuck-up. But hey! He says he loves you! Passht have some self-respect for fucks sack.

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