Is it normal to want to give your gf freedom?

I'm a girl and I would be kinda shocked (in a bad, your not worth keeping just for myself way) if my bf told me it was okay to mess with other guys.

I know ur trying to think of her, but this may make her feel bad.

If he is better at sex she might develop feelings and leave you. You may have had good intentions but, your intentions will make her leave you

I'm the same way (you can check out my post on jealousy) but we're a lot older. It's a bad idea at you're age because it will 100% turn into a disaster for you and you'll just wish you could take your words back (even if she doesn't take you for your offer).

you're fucked. shes going to life it better than having sex with you and then you're pretty much fucked my friend

I would be upset if my boyfriend told me I could go and fuck other guys.. as though he expects me to do the same for him, which I wouldn't because that's the point of being a couple?

I would think he's prob already cheated or wants to cheat so is letting the girlfriend do it to ease the guilt

If a guy said that to me, it would make me think that he didn't really care or treasure me. Bad idea.

I think it's sweet of you to trust her that much :)

I think it's a great idea, then she might have the chance to actually find Mr. Right! Lol

Dude my gf would cry luterly cry besides she can experiment with you bowchicabow

My gf would kill me litalry we've been together for 7 years I'm 12 so I can't have sex with her but she would kill me and leave me relly she wants a baby and I have to deliver it later a lot but imagine if she gets Pregnate 1 shed leave me for him but she'd blame me for telling her to experimente dont

To her, its just going to sound like you are the one who wants to be with others.

Well your a swinger couple so that's nice of you

My wife and I talk very openly about sex and our fantasies and I know she doesn't want to have sex with any one else but I have told her that if she wants to "experiment" with a girl she doesn't need to ask me first to just go ahead and do it just tell me about it after and if she ever wants to have sex with another guy to talk to me first and that I would most likely be cool with it if I was there for the first time not necessarily to participate but just to watch unless she wanted me to participate so I think it's normal as long as your relationship is strong and comes first that being said I've been with my wife for 10 years and married for 5 of those years and no one has cheated on anyone and we have only ever been with each other and our relationship is strong so I think that if it were ever to happen in our relationship it wouldn't have an adverse effect on our mairage

Cool.

you are ruining all the fun for her.

Perhaps what you are looking for is license to mess around with other women. If she bites on the freedom to engage in infidelity, not only does that make reciprocity more acceptable for you, but it also tests out her commitment to you. I wouldnt say to her, "Its ok, I would say, please just be honest with me about what you are feeling" and cross the bridge when you get there. Also, you are inviting something that suggests impunity on her part, is that really the way you feel?

Your a Brave man. I like the fact that you asked her to tell you, but it's just getting her to tell you.
Worst case scenario, if she cheats I think she will come back to you because of the great level of respect you have for her :)

That is weird but if your ok with it sure

no

U should if u nvr wanna c her again

No she is going to cheat on you and suck on other guys dicks, After she will go dike.