Is it normal to want to give my partner babies?

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I love my partner so much so very much... It's intense, I didn't know if I wanted babies until I met my partner, they have changed my life. I only want babies with them. I tell them everyday that I want to give them babies, they know I mean it, they want babies with me too.

I feel like a pervert though due to the men on Omegle who have a fetish for pregnancy, I don't want to be like them but I just really want to give my partner babies...

Is it normal that I want to give my partner babies? (I'm a male, she's a female)

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    The way you phrase it is very much as though you're doing it as a gift to her.

    What about you? You've got to want to be a father. You're not just 'giving' her babies, you're 'giving' yourself babies and all the responsibilities that brings.

    I'm not sure it's healthy to think of your children as though they are a present to your partner. Babies grow up into children, who grow up into teenagers, then adults.

    Would you be there for them when they are strong-willed individuals with their own dreams and aspirations?

    Would you be there for them if, for whatever reason, the relationship with your partner breaks down and you split up?

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    • MylittlePlusle
      9 years ago

      I know that of course, I know that babies gr will of grow up, Ise be there for them if they had their own dreams.

      I don't know if I could be there for them if the relationship ended as they would remind me of the ended relationship.

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      • disthing
        9 years ago

        "I don't know if I could be there for them if the relationship ended as they would remind me of the ended relationship."

        This statement suggests to me you're not ready for kids. Your relationship with your children shouldn't depend upon your feelings towards your partner. They would be as much YOUR children as hers, and as much YOUR responsibility as hers.

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  • charli.m
    9 years ago

    Ok, you want to "give her" babies...right.

    Make sure you want to actually raise a family, with all that entails, before you "give her" babies.

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    • MylittlePlusle
      9 years ago

      Of course I do, I want to raise a family with her.

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      • charli.m
        9 years ago

        And is this about the kids? Or your own stuff? Cos the way you phrase it, sounds like you think they're toys.

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  • howaminotmyself
    9 years ago

    I hope you get the permission of the parenta first. Otherwise that's kidnapping. And im pretty sure you can go to jail for that.

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    • MylittlePlusle
      9 years ago

      What do you mean? What does this have to do with anything?

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      • howaminotmyself
        9 years ago

        explaining a joke takes away all the fun

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    How about you give her one of yours and adopt any others you might wish to raise? That would be the responsible thing to do today.
    Just a word of warning though, quite often after the first baby, many women lose interest in sex and more babies, so hold off a while, if you like having lots of sex with her.

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    • MylittlePlusle
      9 years ago

      She wants to have three children so I don't think adoption is an option, I know that. It won't be happening for a long time though.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Hopefully she'll change her mind after the first one, or you could put your foot down and insist that you adopt the last two. The world really doesn't need three children from each couple.

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  • iEatZombies_
    9 years ago

    My goodness, ItDuz. You really changed your tune.

    (Note: I know this isn't ItDuz"s post. Just funny to imagine. lol.)

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I don't think women who "turn into a nightmare" during pregnancy are ready for children. If you're battling to deal with a quiet baby inside your belly wait till its out in the open, screaming and crying and refusing to sleep. You think you're tired and cranky now? Wait till the baby arrives.

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    You should probably give her one of those digi-pets. Sounds like you might even have trouble keeping that alive.

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  • LizardSkin
    9 years ago

    You sound like one of those high school kids who should be on a show like 16 and pregnant. Certainly don't sound like someone with the maturity level to properly raise a child.

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  • mcook2014
    9 years ago

    im 36 weeks pregnant ( 9 months ) and honestly i dont think you are ready to have children. it might be a natural instinct you have which is driving this need to impregnate your gf but what you have to remember is that children need a good support system whether your in the relationship or not. plus pregnancy changes a women due to hormones so the girl you may love now might turn to be a nightmare during pregnancy lol.

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    • MylittlePlusle
      9 years ago

      Um, I never said I wanted a child now... I'm just wondering if it's normal to want to have a child with someone you love.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Its normal, but you said it in a really weird way. Do you want to be a father or do you just want to have kids with her just because? You have to make sure you're ready to actually take on the responsibility of being a father. A baby isn't just a gift, its a human being.

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    • MylittlePlusle
      9 years ago

      Oh, good, I was fearing I was being a pervert.
      I want to be the father of her children. I know that a baby is a human.

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      • ArtemesiaNoam
        9 years ago

        I think people are very confused because you haven't phrased the question properly. Also, the fact that you thought wanting to father a child was perverted was extremely mind-boggling. I assume English isn't your first language. Not trying to be mean. :)

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