Is it normal to want to get rid of embarassing fetishes

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I have a few fetishes I would rather I didn't have (sph, sissy, cuckold, ect.). Whenever I become aroused from these fetishes I feel more embarassed than not about it. There are fetishes I am not embarassed by, but I hate feeling humiliated even though my dick disagrees with me. I just wish I didn't have these fetishes and could go on with my life and never think of them again.

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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

If you want to get rid of a fetish, habit, or type of thought then don't entertain that thought. When the thought pops up distract yourself. Do not feed things that you don't want to grow.

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- Doesnormalmatter
  
  4 years ago
  
  This!
  
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momwatcher69

4 years ago

I'm not understanding why these fetishes, are something you can't / won't embrace?

Maybe your fetishes are actually who you ARE, and that's why they turn you on?

Why are you thinking you should "fight" these feelings?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  because while it feels good in the moment, afterwards i feel like shit and wish i hadn't. i feel genuinely emasculated. i don't want that kind of sexual life, to feel like shit after i orgasm. i also think that these kinds of fetishes can go to extremes i don't want to reach. i don't want my sex life to revolve around fetishes revolving around embarrassment. maybe i'm afraid to find out who i truly am, but if this is who i am, i don't want it to be.
  
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momwatcher69

4 years ago

If you're the only one, who knows, how can you "be embarassed" ?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  and in the post i say how the shame outweighs the pleasure when i get off with these fetishes
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  if i entertain these ideas my lifestyle would go in a direction i dont want it to go. i would be embarassed
  
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bleedingdiarhea

4 years ago

Theres a trick that helps get rid of bad habits and fetishes that works well for a lot of people. When thinking of your fetish also think if something disgusting, like vomit. For example, when you think of being cuckolded imagine someone throwing up on your genitals. It wont take long before you begin equating habits or thoughts you want to end with something undesirable, therefore making it lose its appeal. Its gross I know.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  ive been using this technique all day, thanks bro.
  
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- Doesnormalmatter
  
  4 years ago
  
  What if I think vomiting in the bedroom is sexy?
  
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  - bleedingdiarhea
    
    4 years ago
    
    You would. Smh. Alabama boy.
    
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    - Doesnormalmatter
      
      4 years ago
      
      I'm from the midwest! If its cause she deep throated my dick than hell yeah its sexy. If it's because I did the milk challenge right before sex than no its not sexy! Context is everything!
      
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FlamingGalah

4 years ago

I agree that it is normal. I have a particular fetish I will not mention. But it is really weird to me and abnormal and I would rather not have it.

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message-man

4 years ago

Just embrace yourself and all your qwerks

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Fionalady

4 years ago

It seems you feel guilty. If it helps most people have one or two fetishes that aren't "normal". Just don't keep talking about it with randoms. and maybe one day you can find someone who is into this too. Some fetishes are more common than we think

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buddyroowho

4 years ago

Maybe, wanting to get rid of embarrassing fetishes is really another embarrassing fetish and it really turns you on

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Unknown_player

4 years ago

Sometimes the embarrassment itself aids more with a kink. Heck humiliation is a kink. Look it up

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The_Judge

4 years ago

Best course of action would be to accept them. As long as you dont implement them in real life, it is just you and your pleasure. However, these things can be worked out with a psycologist. There is nothing wrong about fetishes, ad long as you are not hurting anyone (against their will)

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momwatcher69

4 years ago

If you're not sure, don't rush into anything. Figure out who, and how you want to be, then experiment, along those lines. Practice safe sex, no matter what.

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momwatcher69

4 years ago

But, you're still a virgin.... so ... what would you like your 1st sexual experience to be?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  i go back and forth on this. sometimes i just want to get it over with, but sometimes i want to wait and lose it to a girl i see a future with. idk, i dont really wanna plan out how to lose my virginity. i do want it to be special, but i dont wanna force it.
  
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momwatcher69

4 years ago

So, you're an 18 y/o guy, who likes large women, and "cartoon" type sex?

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momwatcher69

4 years ago

Do you watch porn? If so, what "flavor"? . . . and why?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  barring what was mentioned above (please google any acronyms you don't understand) i like BBW and Hentai.
  
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momwatcher69

4 years ago

Ok.... so you have fantasies of sph, being a sissy, a cuckold, etc.
What's the harm? If you don't mind me asking, what's your age, are you a virgin, and are you gay (or think you might be? )

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I have an idea of what I want to be and a sissy/cuck ain't it.
  18, virgin.
  I used to think I was bi, but I don't like guys. It seems cliche I guess, but I think I was just confused about my sexuality (and obviously still am).
  
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momwatcher69

4 years ago

By the way, what is "sph"?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  small penis humiliation. basically someone calls your penis small and you get turned on by it.
  
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- Clunk42
  
  4 years ago
  
  I was wondering the same thing.
  
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pepus

4 years ago

if that is what you like, u have to accept it.
Ik its hard, cause no one talks about that, but u can be pretty sure its more normal than u think

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Ellenna

4 years ago

There's nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about in getting off by fantasizing about fetishes.

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dimwitted

4 years ago

You don't like it but your body does? That's complicated.

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