Is it normal to want to get close, but not date or have sex

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For some time I've been wanting to experience some type of sympathetic courtship with another person, like holding them tight and expressing how much I care for the person, but when I think about it My mind eventually goes to the whole dating kissing and sex part and I instantly become distasted of the idea. This has been happening since I was 13 and it has hurt a lot of people. I'll have girls come close to me, reveal there secrets and trust me, then they ask to further our relationship and I just have to say no. Theres a girl I'm talking to now, she put herself out there for me sexual in context this time, and I said no. She went and had sex with someone else and got pregnant which was the final straw, what the fuck is wrong with me?

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    It'll fall in place for you when you feel right with that special someone.
    Apparently the girl who got knocked up at first rejection isn't what's right for you.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    Nothing is wrong with you. You need to open your sexual side. But first, we need to find out why is it locked up in the first place.

    I find this interesting.

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    • 011assasin
      11 years ago

      Well, if your asking for a phycological profile.
      Never been sexually assulted, raped, etc... still a virgin due to this weird block I assume it is, I am a spawn of wedlock as for most of our family, and I get really close to women not expecting or really wanted sex as explained.

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  • flutterhigh
    11 years ago

    Nothing's wrong with you, people just have varying libidos. Assuming you haven't gone through any sort of sexual/mental trauma in the past, it's likely just a sexual or romantic anxiety that I think is fairly common. It might help to talk to a therapist about these things, if only to put your thoughts in order.

    Whatever it is, don't get too eager to jump into something just for the sake of having it.

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