Is it normal to want to fuck your bestfriend?

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So I have a girlfriend, whom I'm absolutely crazy about, Her and I are perfect together and I've never been happier. However, My best friend is a girl that I have known for a much longer time than my girlfriend. We even lived together at one point. She wants me to take her virginity and I want to so bad, for several reasons. Some of it because I've always been attracted to her, and some of it because (as douchy as it sounds) I love her so much and I dont want her to waste her first time on some asshole who doesnt care about her. She lives out of state and I'm going to see her soon. Is it normal to want to have sex with her? Even though I know how wrong it is and I hate myself for wanting it so badly. Any opinions on what I should do as well?

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  • WasJustCurious
    11 years ago

    I am in a very simular situation. Except my friend wants to me fuck when she is drunk and doesn't remember anything the next day. Of course i dont take advantage of the situation. My concern is always on her well-being first and put my urges aside. But lately these thoughts in my head are starting to become overwhelming. I try to be honest and tell her what went on and what she did when she was drunk but she behaves alouf.

    I think the right thing to do is to Tell her what is going on in my head and ask for her help in dealing with this, That we can work thru any awkwardness and that she is in no pressure to do anything physical. And thats what I'm going to do. The situation may become shitty but we can work thru it.

    In your situation since u and your bestfriend understands the situation, u dont need to clarify things with her. But you should be honest with your girlfriend. The situation might become shitty but u can work thru it. If you guys end up breaking up then so be it but atlease it will be because of honestly and will be something she has a say in.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    If your going to do it, you should do it right and break up with your currant girlfriend. People have feelings and stuff so you shouldn't mess up someone else's life like that it's just immoral.

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    • WasJustCurious
      11 years ago

      Well you dont have to break up with your girlfriend just because u want to fuck someone else. Thats jumping the gun. First talk to her about what you want to do. She might end up wanting o breakup or she may talk you out of it or she might appreciate your honesty and trust you enough to let you go thru with it.

      It sounds to me that you are not being a dick and want to fuck some hot chick for the fun of it. It seems like this is somethig you put thought into and decided that you want this but dont want to hurt your GF's feelings. If you are honest and persevere when the consequences of your honesty unfolds you can move forward without regrets.

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  • Thuddbutt
    12 years ago

    My best friend lives on the other side of the country. They've never met.

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  • schtopp
    12 years ago

    Hey. Have you introduced your gf to your "best friend", and if so, do they get along?

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