Is it normal to want to feel less perfect?

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I'm a Chinese girl living in the US, and i sometimes feel that i hate myself for being so perfect (im not trying to boast, it's what people think too).. im a cheerleader captain, a top scorer in class, and a good athlete (i have won a lot of different tournaments).. its like everywhere i go, guys either pretend they know me, or just do silly actions like whistle at me.. many white guys even dumped their girlfriends and went after me, but of course i didn't accept them, because i think they are just so mean to their gfs.. many girls even try to dress/act like me or hang out with me, but i don't see what's the big deal, yes, im one of the popular girls in school (most of them think i'm the hottest chinese/asian chick they have ever seen).. this makes me feel so frustrated, i sometimes wish i was a nerd, that i was far from perfect, that i would sit by the stands eating pop corn instead of doing cheerleading out there, that no guys would try to bug me for dates n stupid stuff (like writing their numbers on their underwears and stuff it in my locker).... urghhh!!!! even girls (lesbos) ask me out!!!! what is wrong with them??? its such a pain for me, some people get really jealous of me (because they said im the sexiest girl in school) but i don't see why is there a reason to be... im sorry this is soo long, but i want to know if theres anyone out there who feels the same way as me????!!

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  • BrightEyes
    13 years ago | pl

    My sincerest apologies. Such stunning perfection is a burden that no one should have to bear.

    ... No, really, get over yourself.

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    • Lunabelle
      13 years ago

      im not trying to tell people how perfect i am now, im just seeking for some help and opinions (by telling people my situation) thank u very much.

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  • bodiewangler
    13 years ago

    You probably have a smelly vag. That's not perfect.

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    Am I the only one who is tired of all these OMG Im so perfect fml. Ones??

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  • mdy112
    13 years ago

    You're the one who wanted to be the cheerleader, play in sports that won you and YOUR TEAM awards...get it .....?? I'm sure if you played in the band or joined the chess club, you'd be the "coolest nerd" out there....that's only if you could pull your head outta your ass for a moment. Girls like you, oh wait.....apologize, bitches like you, feel this way cause guys want to get in your pants dumbass. Most teenage guys want ANY girl as niave as you..just cause your book smart, doesn't mean you know shit about thr real stuff that actually matters in life..the shit you'll hopefully learn when you've experienced them, so don't flatter yourself!!! You're just making yourself look like a total moron..congrats!

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  • Racoon
    13 years ago

    Wow , what would you do if you were bullied, having people trowing food at you, locking you up in your locker and stealing your food and breaking your stuff like they did to me?

    I'm sorry but I can't feel pity for you.

    But if you feel like people are putting to much pressure on you , than you might have to speak about it or maybe cancel an activity or two so you can relax and do something that can't turn into a competition because it seems to me that maybe your parents are living their dreams ''trough'' you?

    And I'm glad to hear that you feel bad for the girls that get dumped for you. ( honestly) When I started to read your post I tought your were a brat that tried to look miserable but you seem to me to be a cool person after all.

    You might try to be friend with less popular person and do some uncool things with them like boardgames and watching old-school horror movies. that's always fun and for once you won't be put on a pedestal for ...nothing

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  • ruralfrights
    13 years ago

    WAIT A DAMNED MINUTE YOU GUYS --AND GALS

    think about what this girl is saying. I don't hear the "I'm too sexy for my shirt" from this girl. I have a friend who was a famous actor as a child, and people have watched his every move since. It's not because he thinks he's perfect. He has had a huge cross to bear. Being in public eye is demoralizing.

    As far as this young lady is concerned, she is living up to her mental and physical capabilities at a level many of us may never experience, and I can assure you that having a seemingly perfect life can yield maximal stress. That's the issue here, NOT vanity. So, try and hear her without shutting her down so quickly. Lots of expectations coming from all directions and then dealing with jealousy. My suggestion is to eliminate a few things so you can have a little more down time... To be a human being. If your teachers or peers or family don't like it, stick to your guns still. You will do nothing but earn their respect in the long run. Good luck with it all, and just keep your head high during jealousy's slings and arrows.

    Rf

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    • Lunabelle
      13 years ago

      hi Rf, omg, you're like the only one here who really understands me, thank u, really =) it's not like im trying to boast, i dont even think im close to hot, but those people treat me like a celebrity in school, and those people get jealous of me all the time, teachers, my parents all give me high expectations, all trying to train me into being some super human of some sort. they treat me like a machine. really, thanks for your advice, i'll try to go against my teachers and parents, its gonna be hard, but i'll try, thank you ^^

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      • violentsonata
        13 years ago

        I don't think Rf was going for the "rebel against authority" advice, I think he more or less meant, start doing things that mean something to YOU, whether it's what your parents or teachers encourage or not. You're living YOUR life, not theirs. Make some time for yourself and do the things you want to do (even if they're mindless, cause that sounds like what you need). Don't drive yourself crazy.

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  • Lockets
    13 years ago

    You have a very high opinion of yourself.

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  • kad
    13 years ago

    Wow

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    I just vomited.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Wow. All of you are douchebags. Instead of answering her question you call her a bitch. Fuck you all. Go Suck a dick.

    But anyways... I think it normal. My life is really good also. But sometimes I wish it wasn't. It's almost like I always Want what I can't have.

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  • adtrbfmv
    11 years ago

    Maybe you aren't being grateful for what you have. You're being such a bitch. You may seem perfect but believe me you're far from it. You're vain, ignorant and snotty as fuck. No one on the Internet cares about your vanity so shut the fuck up and live your "perfect" life, bitch.

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  • boston12
    11 years ago

    im glad ur admired and life is good. it wont last for eva so enjoy

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  • CURLY210
    12 years ago

    Well it sounds like all the blokes arre just trying to get in with you so fuck them all they are all cunts and stop hating on yourself dont worry be happy

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  • Anonymusgirl
    13 years ago

    Hahahahaaaa, how i laughed at this.

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  • mdy112
    13 years ago

    Yeah, WTF....these people have to be kidding right? Confidence is great, but really???

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  • elizabethbrooke
    13 years ago

    Youre lame.

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  • fancyj
    13 years ago

    Really?

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