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I'm 17 and I know for sure that I like boys but in my head I really want to try a girl. I don't know if it's wrong or right, help me out?
I am iffy on the topic. I find men far more attractive in every aspect other than sexual, where as I find women sexually attractive.
It is irritating, as evolution has burdened me with the choice of find interest in people in a spiritual way, but not have sexual connection, or have sexual connection and nothing more.
Sometimes I wish I found males somewhat sexually attractive, hell I rarely find women sexually attractive, but still. I myself want to see if I can withstand a relationship with both genders, not just one.
I have to trade one important aspect in for another if I ever want to be in the relationship aspect of life.
Ugh. I don't even view people as "people", I view them as art, the good art and the bad. Hell, I don't even know what I am going on about here, I haven't digged deep enough to figure myself out.
But I digress, you may be bisexual, you may just be curious. It happens.
I like how you think, it's really interesting and different :) idk I find women more sexually arousing than men and honestly the two times I've actually done anything with a penis grossed me out a bit but I know I like men. Idk it's really weird, it's mainly I'm afraid of my parents somehow finding out about it if I ever had the guts to try a girl and end up liking it better than a guy
Well, by you being "grossed out" by it, I would say you are a lesbian. You can like men and find them physically attractive, but not sexually, it's natural.
A side note, completely off topic. I never understood what was so big about lesbians. Apparently they are pleasing to men to see, but I get put off by lesbianism. Not in an offensive way, I am not opposed to homosexuality, obviously.
I'm pretty much the same, but i definitely wouldn't consider it a burden. Have you even heard how much people whine about heartbreak?
Most girls are curious like that too. Its just that if were straight we wanna see how it goes with a girl totally normal :]
As long as you're comfortable with what you're doing, there is nothing wrong with experimenting with members of your same gender. North America treats sexuality like it's a black and white issue and tries to put labels on everything (ie, straight, gay, bisexual, etc) when in reality, sexuality is a flexible aspect of who you are and it doesn't "make" you anything other than yourself.
Honestly, I'm 19 and I've only ever been with men and been attracted to men but there is a girl I've gotten to be super good friends with and she and I are so alike. She's super beautiful and she's kind of hinted that she's into me even though she's seeing a guy right now (its an open relationship), and I can totally see her and I ending up messing around sometime. But the idea isn't uncomfortable to me.
It's completely normal! It's part of growing up... I've had a few girl experience even tho I'm straight... Girls are gentler and softer, see it as experience so when your with a guy you can show them how you like it.... Not sure if that made sense :)
Women these days:
"i am straight,i love men and only men, but i want to try it with another female"
(later, after they tried it)
" i just realized i'm bisexual. I don't know why i didn't figure this out before."
(time passes, more experimentation)
" i just realized i'm a lesbian. I don't know why i liked men, they are so gross."
Conclusion: How the fuck can you take women seriously?
It's never wrong to be a little homosexual. I like girls and I will never try a guy. I'm only 14 years old (and a girl) and I already know what I want in my love life when i'm older.