Is it normal to want to escape into my own world?

I am currently going through a slightly angsty period where I'm beginning to hate everything about this stupid reality more and more; everything in the spectrum from creepy attention whores on Facebook to brainwashed religious countries at war. Every day feels exactly the same now. When 2014 comes along, there will be almost nothing new to look forward to because almost everything that humanity wanted to accomplish has been accomplished and then duplicated ad nauseum.

At the moment, I just wish I could escape into my own personal world. An ideal world full of fantastical, dreamlike elements, where exciting events occur often, where different cultures are celebrated and not compared, and where technology is used in moderation. Fantasy fiction and adventure video games make me envy the lives their characters lead. I know it sounds like I'm childishly complaining, but it really makes me depressed sometimes. As a musician, I always had dreams of publishing great new albums for the world, but now I fear that what I create will go to waste because it's probably been done before, because there is only one dimension - this one.

I feel trapped in this reality. I certainly don't want to take my life or anything like that, but I feel evermore saddened that at some point, I'm going to have to force myself to get a grip and move on in life, doomed, just like everyone else, to witness the world's downfall as technology becomes increasingly more boring (unless Japan starts selling the world robot butlers) and various countries around the world continue to fued over trivial matters. If only I could fall asleep forever and live in a fresh, exciting new world beyond this one...

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  • Short4Words

    I understand you. I use to live in my own world too. I wanted to be a writer and I had all these ideas constantly swimming in my head. Every time I went to bed I fell asleep to the ongoing events in these stories, every time I had a minute to think I would dive back in it was great for awhile, I wasn't bothered. Until it was all I could to get away. Constantly running away. My whole life I've spent running away from things. This is just another way. And honestly man, I am going to tell you straight up, the world is fucking sad, and boring, because you don't do anything but observe. I mean no wonder nothing is exciting anymore. You are on the outside looking in.

    Maybe you are trapped in your own sad reality you've created for yourself. Have you really done it all? Found the love of your live? Pursued your career? Try to find God or love or peace or something? Something meaningful beyond the the mind you retreat to?

    I challenge you to challenge me, if you think I'm not right let's go through it.

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    • You still do.

      Everybody lives in their own world as they can only see through their own eyes. Any other answer fucks itself in the ass, according to logical deduction.

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      • Short4Words

        You make a good point. It's true, I guess what my point should have been is that you can really change that sad little world into something beautiful.

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        • Ofcourse, that is certainly possible.

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    • dom180

      You're one of my favourite commenters.

      +1

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  • Karmasbitch

    I can really relate to this. I draw very often and create my own abstract world on paper. I get lost in it and can spend hours doing it.
    Everything in moderation, though.

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  • KnightTemplar

    Ey bro.. Read a book.. Non - Fiction one.. And learn new things, maybe the way your world view is limited.. Go out and have fun.. You talk like a person who has at least lived for a thousand years.. Cartoons,Anime,Video games etc are figment of someones imagination,if you want to go as far as stooping down to that level.. That's a shame, you more than that bro.. I can relate to an "extent" .. I love Naruto..[Anime] and sometimes I wish it were real but getting over it is something important.. There's way more to life

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    I feel kind of sad for you in a way, it appears you have such a bleak outlook on life. I'm always really happy when a new year comes around because I think of all the new and interesting things that are going to happen in my OWN life, not in the world as a whole. Maybe that's selfish but it keeps me happy.

    But I dispute some of your points here. Each decade I'm sure people say, well there's nothing original left to do, everything that's going to be invented has already been invented. And each decade technology advances, unrelenting. Humanity most certainly has not achieved everything it wants to, not by a long shot.

    Technology is definitely not becoming more boring, rather the contrary. I can think of several exciting technological things coming up in the future just off the top of my head. Electric cars from Tesla, the prospect of Evacuated Tube Transport, Space Tourism, Curing Type 1 Diabetes, Hydrogen Fuel Cells. There are so many interesting things in the world, you just have to look for them.

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  • ObsessedWithReedus

    Try fanfiction. Seriously. You can write out your own personal world abd put it in the uncatagorized catagory. Or go on Quotev, it's basically the same. Or Wattpad.
    Keep your fantasy world going :) it helps with everyday life in this rather hypocritical, boring, and hostility ridden world.

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    • TheProph

      This is a good idea.

      Or you could just write original stories instead, since fanfiction is incredibly sad.

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans

    Well i seem to live in another world from the day i was born.Everydobdy who talks to me always thinks im weird in some way or another.

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  • thegypsysailor

    You are all a fitment of my imagination and if you are so unhappy here, I'll just unimagine you. OK?

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    • SHAKEStheClown

      It's figment, you dumbass geezer.

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      • thegypsysailor

        Yeah, yeah, I see that now. But dumbass, now that hurts!

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        • SHAKEStheClown

          Well, thugs be buggered!

          *honks red nose*

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    • Arent you like 50??

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      • SHAKEStheClown

        He's in his 60's.

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  • shuggy-chan

    I was in another world...world of 20. 20thousand women

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    • Short4Words

      girls* Good song though.

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  • AnotherCrazyCanadian

    Here's a few things you can try, I've looked into this before (there are absolutely NO drugs or any medication involved)

    Out of body experience
    Lucid dreaming
    Isolation tanks/flotation tanks
    Virtual reality (oculus rift)

    Now, if you've heard of an out of body experience or lucid dreaming, it essentially allows you to control your dreams. When you enter an out of body experience, you can freely fly around your world doing what you please. But a lucid dream is when you wake up when you are sleeping and can control, create, and experience anything in your dreams.

    Isolation tanks are known to cause temporary sensory deprivation, and in turn give more lucidity to the brain. This can almost cause a retreat inside your head deeper than anything else known.

    Virtual reality is the most feasible and cheapest due to recent technological advancements. I have one of the very first developers kit from Oculus, and the immersion is incredible. The world covers your entire vision with no black boxes or anything, and also tracks your movements as well. If you turn your head in the rift, the vision turns as well. It's also fairly cheap for the second kit, costing about $350. This could also be a way to escape from reality.
    Look into all of those.

    And my final piece of advice is to find what makes you happy in life, and hold onto that, forget about the bad in the world as those things don't affect you. You have enough problems, and if you want to find a world worth living, you have to be the one to create it. Don't ever be afraid of what others think; they'll never make you happy like you could.

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  • Demundo

    Most sane people stay sane by having aprivate world to retreat to. When something pisses me off in real life, I always imagine moving to a brand new country where people have better lives without whatever it is that pissed me off. When I say a brand new coutry, I imagine it to be a medium-sized island that just suddenly appears in the middle of the ocean, and no existing country has a claim on it and no existing ethnicity/religion/pressure group can claim it is their ancestral land, so all sane people are welcome there.

    That said, there is one fantastic thing we still don't have - interplanetary travel. I would quite happily abandon my new island home for a starship travelling amongst the stars.

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  • agentchaos

    i do the same thing

    i want to live in the pokemon world

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe your clinically depressed? I've felt that way most of my life.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I do everytime i switch on my xbox/ps3/wii/3ds.

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  • TheProph

    Yes it's totally normal to be unsatisfied with your life, which is exactly the problem.

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  • iheartu2013

    To OP:
    I feel this way a lot as well.

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  • Erik963

    This life sucks. That is true. I would rather enjoy living in a reality where everything spins around me rather than around others.

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  • GuessWho

    Yeah.
    This world is so corrupt and horrible right now, I don't know if it will ever come right.

    I, too would like to contribute to society, but I wonder if it is even worth it as I'm unsure whether enough people like me even exist to save it from it's eventual and impending downfall.

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  • Grapist

    I wish to create my own world as well. Hell maybe the transition is complete in my mind already. Or maybe I will right a book. But my world is shifting as I realize who ideally want to be. I am Cormac Bianco, noble white knight and slayer of savages. In my world Africans and coloreds are not just the white mans burden, they are his bane an enemy. I slay blacks with my sword of truth, a luminite forged blade made from the element that also built the Eiffel tower, the triumph of Caucasian ingenuity. My shield is made of columbium, an indestructible and pure white metal named after the white mans promised land and city upon a hill. It is up to me to defend this land from the savages andy noble deeds are rewarded in heroity in the slaying of dark skinned guerillas fighting the good and true empire.

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    • TheProph

      You would never get published.

      "Right a book" As oppose to wronging a book?

      Good luck with that, rofl.

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    • LOL.

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  • It's called recreational drug use. As long as you don't hurt yourself or your loved ones it can be a good tool to keep from going insane. The problem is this is hard for people to achieve while using any kind of drug for any period of time. It is possible. USE DRUGS. USE DRUGS. USE DRUGS.

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    • Legion

      dont use drugs as a form of escapism! That is the quickest way to get addicted, and constant drug use is dangerous.

      i dont have many qualms about using recreational drugs (except meth,crack or heroin), but i dont recommend using drugs like this.

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      • *Busts nut

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    • TheProph

      Yeah, brilliant! Potentially unleash your inner addict and invite years upon years of suffering and depression. THAT'LL help. FFS.

      That would only help for a year if you're lucky, but most likely a lot less.

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      • **blasts a load off*

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        • TheProph

          Hot

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