Is it normal to want to dress my boyfriend up in women's clothing?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years, and we are very comfortable around each other and accept each other. I have this somewhat embarrassing fetish, however. I keep wanting to have sex with him while he is in women's clothing and makeup. He already has hair past his chest, so he can really pull it off. He wears my underwear and bra sometimes because it makes me happy, but I don't know if he's as into it as I am. Is it normal for me to be wanting to do this? I feel like he thinks I want a woman in bed or someone else when I ask to try this. But I totally don't want that! I am too shy to ask anyone about this in real life.

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Based on 520 votes (478 yes)
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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    I actually just read something that said "Is it normal my girl puts me in dresses". That was not your boyfriend was it?

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    • xlizabxth
      10 years ago

      Haha, hopefully not! I don't usually do that. I like putting him in lingerie more.

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      • General6477
        2 years ago

        I think it's normal & I'd love a woman who would want me to dress up in her clothes & underwear

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      • Dandan7676
        7 years ago

        You doing same as my x girlfriend used to do for me.

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      • oleo
        10 years ago

        How would you feel if he decided to become a mtf transsexual?

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        • xlizabxth
          10 years ago

          I would support him 100% if he were to become a transsexual. However, I think he's pretty happy being a man! Haha. This is something mainly for the bedroom, but if it went further, I wouldn't mind. :)

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          • oleo
            10 years ago

            That's cool, nice to have a supportive gf like that. Wish more women and men were like you. :)

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  • DADNSCAL
    10 years ago

    Kind of cute, actually. You 2 must be very comfortable with each other. Have fun!

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  • IanAkATina
    4 years ago

    I think it is perfectly normal. My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. One night about 2 years ago she asked me if she could dress me up, I was a little reluctant at first but after a while I agreed. I wore a dress stockings heels makeup and all and felt rather embarrassed but she reassured me saying I looked cute and she loved me in her clothes. As the weeks went by she dressed me up more saying she loves me wearing women's underwear and clothes and asked if I would dress up more often. I love her with all my heart and would do absolutely anything for her so i agreed. I have grown to love the comfort I feel while wearing women's clothing, my legs feel so free when wearing a dress. Now 2 years on it feels so natural to pick up a bra a skirt or a dress or anything and put them on. Since I started wearing women's clothes we have become so close, we are not just husband and wife , we are sole mates and I just can't be without her. This is a wonderful beautiful thing we share together and we are so happy

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    Why is this voted normal?

    There's nothing wrong with it, but it's hardly common or considered a social norm. I think a lot of people confuse normality with acceptance.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    It's amazing what couples will do for each other when they truly love them and what fulfill their wants and desires! Just tell him, if he minds, he will let you know.

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  • baronroderick
    10 years ago

    Pretty common fetish as I know. They say even Cleopatra and Mark Antony cross-dressed with each others clothing. Go and tell him, explain your fantasy and be happy. Good luck.

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  • oleo
    10 years ago

    I see nothing wrong with it-if it makes you happy why not? I'd do it for my gf also.

    Though some girls prefer their man to be a 'stud' and feminizing them could turn them off.

    I think you enjoy playing with social norms of what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior or dress for men and women.

    Forgot to mention, I've also done some cross-dressing and a part of me wishes I was born a female-but I still like women.

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    • xlizabxth
      10 years ago

      Yeah, I think you're right. I have done some cross-dressing myself. I prefer to be the more dominant one sometimes. It's fun to just experiment and see what you like. :) Why be closed-minded, you know?

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      • oleo
        10 years ago

        indeed, well I've always found it pretty cute if my gf was wearing my shirt or jacket.

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  • Bigboobs420
    5 years ago

    From a girl to girl it gald because i let my boyfriend wear my bras and button shirts and i would do the same iv done it 8years now with him

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  • Bigboobs420
    5 years ago

    From a girl to girl it gald because i let my boyfriend wear my bras and button shirts and i would do the same iv done it 8years now with him

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  • Bisexual27
    6 years ago

    Would you help a boy dress up as a girl if he wasn't your boyfriend.

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  • Darkknight
    6 years ago

    I often wear my girlfriends underwear and pajamas around the house and she actually wears my boxers. Its not a big deal with us at all really.

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  • Becky994
    6 years ago

    Hey

    I'm don't know what to do i can't talk to any more one about my boyfriend like wearing girls clothes wearing leggings and my underwear and wearing dress and swimsuits and use toys and I think it gose to far I don't want to say no as I'm worry what he think or say if he leave me I love him so much but I cry over it near everynigth whdg can I do

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  • jaz8585
    7 years ago

    I like to dress up in female clothing. You can dress me up any way you wanted. You can sent me an email at [email protected] if you want to see me dressed.

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  • Dandan7676
    7 years ago

    My x girlfriend used to do it for me too, and by the time I get used. I think it's normal as much as you love each other.

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  • SometimesCarly2
    8 years ago

    IMHO your boyfriend is very lucky! I'd LOVE to find a GF who would enjoy and initiate dressing me up in sexy lingerie!

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    • SometimesCarly2
      8 years ago

      I did have a GF once long ago who liked us lounging around together, both in sexy lingerie. The sensation of our combined silk/satin and lace gliding across each other in bed was very arousing!

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  • Westone
    9 years ago

    Id like that...sounds cool.

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  • psilotrea
    9 years ago

    Haha! The "is it normal" question kind of throws me. Is it normal? Not really.

    But is it OK? Of course it is. Especially if it's fun for you both.

    Apparently you and I share some things in common. I've always had the same urge and have been dressing boyfriends as long as I've had them. I've been with my current boyfriend for a long time. I introduced him to crossdressing early in our relationship and now it's become an integral part of our relationship. It's something that we share and do together, and something that has helped us be closer than I would have thought possible.

    If you ever want to talk more about these things with someone who has been there, send me an email at [email protected]

    Jenn

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    • Sasha941
      8 years ago

      I dress up faithfully... But I wanna go all the way and stay a few days but I don't have the girls to do it cause I'm too afraid to say something

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Guy's like it when girls wear there clothes, like their uniform, or their favorite teams gursey or shirt and tie. So I guess it's normal.

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    • Darkoil
      10 years ago

      Yea.........No not so much.

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