Is it normal to want to do things with my best friend?

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Me and my best friend are very close and she means everything to me...

In a game of drunk spin the bottle, we have snogged and I really enjoyed it!!

I really really want things to go further with her but I know she'd never ever accept this. I think about it all the time but I don't know what to do. I know it probably isn't normal but I can't stop imagining it.

What should I do!!??

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    unfortunately if you know she'd never want to go further and you value your friendship you should just drop the idea. There's not much you can do and you risk ruining everything with her by thinking too much on it.

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    • christophero1973
      10 years ago

      ^^^Good answer! I'm a male and knew a 50-ish Bi-sexual women in the same predicament(ex-marine!), she ruined her friendship by pushing the same issue.

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  • AB1234
    7 years ago

    Just out of curiosity, um... Is your best friend susceptible to over-the-counters like Benedryl?

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  • farkelu
    10 years ago

    @thegruffalo thanks never heard that word for it! Normal!

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  • moomoo563
    10 years ago

    u should go for it and if she says no just ask her to be rlly close friends and if she says yes then im happy for you. :)

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  • farkelu
    10 years ago

    Snogged?

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    • Legion
      7 years ago

      to kiss or make out. Its more commonly used in the UK.

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    • thegruffalo
      10 years ago

      It means they made out.

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  • felixbelacan2
    10 years ago

    drunked her...

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  • sexaddict567
    10 years ago

    Are you a girl too? If so, are you straight? If you're a straight guy, then yes. If you are a straight girl, you could be showing signs that you are lesbian.Or that you are bisexual.

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  • Alex_Gee
    10 years ago

    If u feel that strongly about it I'd suggest u try playing it again - if u get to snog her again then try holding her hips or cradling her face. Oof course u should also use u'r tongue. If she backs away then u know she not interested - if she does it back then ask if u can touch her - then take it from there. Also if she touches u back, tell her u'r getting turned on by it but make a joke of it and be playful. If u go in too heavy it'll scare her. At the end of the day shes a friend and that should be the most important thing between u - but it doesnt mean to say u cant fool around or experiment. Good luck sweetie! Axxx

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  • IBMelissaG
    10 years ago

    Just tell her you have been masturbating to thoughts of her for a long time, and lately you've wanted to do it in front of her. Maybe she will watch - maybe she will masturbate you, or herself - and maybe she will shag you.

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  • poopey-eyeball
    10 years ago

    Dont do it, keep the fantasy a fantasy. Enjoy thinking about her when your alone. If she is a "real" friend you will do that for her....

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Oh ma frend you in the frend zone.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Tried telling her?

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