Is it normal to want to do something you don't feel comfortable doing?

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Okay so last night my boyfriend came over. We talked about how we feel like we are ready for sex but we know it's to early. So after that we were watching episodes of The Simpsons and I decided to get him excited and rub his crotch. He got very into it and started to rub my boobs. He got extremely hard and it was a lot easier to rub his crotch and he put his hand inside my shirt. Later he undid his pants and I pretty much gave him a hand job outside of his underwear, and at the moment I loved it because I have never done that before. Then I think he came , but if he did he wouldn't admit it because it is the first time it has happened to him to. So i went to the washroom to wash my hands because well..ya. And I started to cry, feeling like i made a mistake. But then I wanted to do it again, and I still want to, but i know that I will feel like an idiot/whore again. Is that normal?

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  • BITCH*ON*THE*GO
    10 years ago

    That happened a couple times to me before, I'm also 13, and when I do that stuff I like it, but then after I feel SO guilty after, i probably shouldn't be doing these things and I HATE when older people tell me to stop, I don't care if I'm too young, if I had my period already I should be able to engage in sexual activity. It is VERY normal to feel that way

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  • TheForbiddenHottie
    13 years ago

    watching The Simpsons turned you on or what ?
    lol.. give him a blow job next time and swallow all the cum..

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  • AlmostMe25
    14 years ago

    Okay well..we're 13 (oh and i kno this site is for 18 + or whatever but this is my sisters new account and i told her i wanted people to help me with this and she said i could post it on here). Ya that night was the first time we got really "close" and I really enjoyed it, and I could tell her was to. I don't feel too guilty or dirty, just more confused. We actually talked about making love to each other, i know that may be weird, but the topic kinda came up and we talked about it. We are both confused about whether we are actually ready to go THAT far yet..

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  • matches
    14 years ago

    How old are both of you?
    It sounds like you explored together and you and he enjoyed it. I am male and still remember my first cum. I still remember the first time a girl touche my cock too. As long as you are both comfortable with each other and are old enough you should not feel guilty or dirty. Sexuality is suppose to feel good and be beautiful. Mabey next time try a more romantic touch. Get some candles and matches light the candles in the room play some romantic music.and then try to relax and explore each others body. Enjoy making love to each other and try new things with each other.

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  • boofle
    14 years ago

    well if he's your boyfriend then you shouldnt feel like a whore? you cant be a whore from doing something with your bf for the first time.

    how old are you?

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