Is it normal to want to date but also go wild

Im a dude and there is a big part of me that wants to date and have a relationship and just have those moments when your with a girl and holding hands and what not, but I just also love to party and not have to worry about cheating on someone. But I also at the same time want a relationship, is this completely normal?

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Based on 66 votes (56 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • BlondeBambi

    No. Not an open relationship, it never works. I actually have a boyfriend (as a girl) and really understand you. I love my boyfriend and don't want to let him go, but I miss going out and kiss whoever I want to kiss and flirting with guys. I still flirt a little, it's just a part of me. But I don't cheat. Really, if there's no one in your life that you're seeing right now, stay single. You will find someone when the time's being.

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  • karmasAbich

    Bleh.. stay single until the party days are over. Besides, more drama when you want to date and do your own thing at the same time. I learned the hard way on that one. Good luck

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  • Unimportant

    It's perfectly normal to want both.

    It's less normal to do both.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    You won't want to cheat if you were with the right person.

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  • kellstar79

    Have an open relationship.... You get both then :)

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  • dongwhan

    first find the "one" make her fall madly in love then party like a wild man. women love to be treated like shit so you could just make her stay home and tell her shut up on the nights you want to party,guys do this all the time.

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  • Malaglinir

    You want to have your cake and eat it too.

    Personally I would just do whatever and avoid commitment until I finally get bored of partying and hook-ups.

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  • Energy

    Pick one!

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