Is it normal to want to date/be with older men?

I am a 23-year-old woman who likes to date -- and eventually sleep with -- older men, assuming we get along.

I don't have a so-called "daddy complex" either.

I'm also not after an older man's money.

I just love the...experience that many of 'em seem to possess.

They are in control and have so much to offer because they've been around the block.

I find these relationships exciting, possibly because, at least in part, they're taboo.

It's like I'm saying, "Screw you, society!"

What do you think?

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  • Dad

    Hmm, well I like younger girls LOL

    I agree that older men know way more than when they were young, and they'll go way further pleasing you (you know where I mean)

    But, (and its sad to tell the truth here) its better that you 'grow' with your partner who is at the same level as you. This growing of the relationship (until you are old together) is far more loving and exciting in the long run.

    Now what's your number?
    Oh yeah, damn!

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    • owpowyerasshurts

      I've always been attracted to women that are younger than me. I'm in my mid 40's and I've had sex with women more than 25 years younger.

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  • nastynigger

    I like younger girls 18 and up. I love their tight bodies, even the chubby white ones give me wood

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  • TyLee

    I have a huge crush on this guy that is 15 years older than me :) It is normal, but Dad is right about growing with your partner.

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  • JuliusE

    Very normal, look at the 18473902 other posts on IIN about this exact thing.

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  • raquel59

    Well I am too ..even though im way past 50,I am very attracted to older men..especially men in there 70's..I find it true that they are more patient and know how to please in the right way..Also I know that I may be like this cause my first sexual experience was with an older man who was 45 and I was 18.

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  • Natalie94

    I love older men! My currebt boyfriend is 35. I'm 20. The sex is great!

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  • thehuman357

    I am in my 50s and love girls who are old enough not to be protected by the law and young enough not to be protected by nature. Of-course 18 - 24 year old's always had a special place in my heart even if it is just admiring them over dinner or dancing. Men ultimately are programmed to be attracted to fertile woman. But some of us older men are still fit, somewhat wealthy, and love to take care our woman.

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  • Princess1989

    God I love older men too they certainly know how to please :-)

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  • GrammarNazi

    brio: Your answer's cute.

    I live in Vegas.

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  • brio

    You don't have to have everything in common to have a good relationship, and you don't have to have ANYTHING in common to have good sex. What you like is what you like, and nobody can tell you it's wrong as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.

    I'm an older guy (47) who loves younger women. I find them delightfully open-minded, fun, and unspoiled compared with women my own age. . . and I like to be with someone who is young and hot enough for me to physically worship in bed.

    The problem for me is that I feel like I can't make the first move on the women I'm interested in, for fear of being creepy. I'm up for a relationship but not clingy or jealous or needy, so if a young woman is interested, she just needs to let me know, and let me know what her boundaries are.

    So, do you live in Northern California? I'd love to meet some interested young women! :)

    Write me: atomdebris(at)gmail(dot)com

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  • IceRico24

    Im quite young and i like older guys, wont go over 25 though lol >_< but old saggy men??? Gross -,-

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  • ya-lyublyu-tebya

    That's fine. I have a thing for Till Lindemann~

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  • OttawaGuy

    all I can say is......I am an older guy :)

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  • Misses-Jack-Sparrow

    I agree with admirer! ( by the way love the end part " C'mon scare me a little" haha) I think it's normal I'm 19 and feel the same way but also like Guys my age to but would never go younger that for me is a turn off.. Lol if im sexually attractive to an older guy then I don't think age matters! I say whatever makes u happy no matter what others think!

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  • AngAnders112

    OP, i agree with alot of the points you made. But then i also like Dad's comment about growing with your partner too.

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  • Rufus

    Old hag.

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  • admirer

    I've been bumping into that Dad guy an awful lot these past few days. I love that guy, he's quite the character, isn't he?
    Alright, back to business:
    Sweetheart, it's perfectly normal, so don't sweat it! NO, for the most part, society doesn't like it... & who gives a damn?
    I'm the same way, I even have a minimal age limit. Money isn't an issue (speaking of which, I need to get back to work here, in a minute), the "daddy complex" thing also isn't an issue... although, I'll call a man 'Daddy' in a heartbeat if he shows me who's boss... but anyone less than 15 years older than me had better really appeal to my appetite in other ways or it's just not going to happen.
    I don't know about you, but another attraction killer for me is if they're into that soft, gentle, slow lovemaking stuff. C'mon, scare me a little, haha.

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    • OttawaGuy

      BOO

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      • admirer

        Hahaha!
        Hell yeah, that's what I'm talkin' about!

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        • OttawaGuy

          Did I scare you a little? :P

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          • admirer

            Maybe a little.
            I don't scare too easily, though. Sometimes you have to go all out to make me really jump.

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  • Angycohen123

    I am 14 and find guys in their early 20 to late 30 very very sexual better

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    • ollieoil

      count me in x

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      • Angycohen123

        Sorry haven't been in in a while how old are you and what country do you live in

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  • flutterhigh

    Wait, what about this is subversive to society? Older men and younger women is the biological and societal norm.

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    • admirer

      I think it's less a year difference & more an age percentage difference that sometimes gets society in a tizzy.
      A woman of 45 with a man of 60 won't usually cause so much as two blinks but a woman of 25 with a man of 40 or so might get looks & the occasional scoff.
      It's silly, but it happens.

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      • Well I'm 43 and dating a 19yo.

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        • admirer

          Hey, you won't catch me complaining. Keep doing your thing, baby!

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      • MNT

        What about 29 years old woman and 39 yrs old man? Is that too much in ages difference?

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        • admirer

          Personally, I think that's nothing! I don't think society would bat an eye either. 29 with 39 is only a 10 year difference & in this case the age gap percentage is only about 25-30% depending on whose end you're looking at it from.
          Not a big deal at all.
          Perfectly normal!

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  • jd1996

    Hey if hegot lots of money go for it

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