Is it normal to want to cheat on your boyfriend?

the relationships not the same and i think he's been cheating on me for a while now. in my opinion its not worth getting into a relationship because there's no such thing as a "committed man", they all cheat end of story. so i think from now on, if i want sex i should just hook up with people, that's what guys do. so why should i risk being heartbroken? should i cheat on him? i dont know why i want to, but i keep having dreams about having sex with all these different attractive guys that i know. its not like i want to date them, i just want to have sex with them. I've never felt this way until i figured out he may be cheating. is all of this nonsense normal?

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Based on 90 votes (33 yes)
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  • Unimportant

    As a guy who never cheated on his girl: It's interesting to know, that I will, because that's in my nature...

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  • LightningTechnician

    Don't cheat on him, just break up with him. Jesus what's wrong with all of you people...get some common sense.

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  • Dizzee

    You're seriously making women look bad right now. Don't cheat on him, but if you want sex that badly, break up with him. If you cheat on a guy you ASSUME, ASSSSUUUMMMMEEEE is cheating on you, it won't do anything but make him feel like crap.

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    • -WhySoSerious-

      lol, and you know what they say about ASSUME.

      It makes an Ass out of U and Me ;p

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      • Dizzee

        I was about to say that, but I'm glad someone caught on. ;D

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  • -WhySoSerious-

    God damn, see that's the revenge factor that some women have. It makes me worried.

    She will twist your heart, and then shit on it just because she THINKS you may be cheating on her.

    Fuck mee.....

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Errr....just break up with him you half wit?

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  • fartonmyface

    Nomster hit the nail on the head. Stop dating douchebags and find a nice guy who will cherish you 100%. Trust me there are many out there.

    I hate how women date assholes and then complain about them being assholes. It's a lost cause.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Word.

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  • radiatelove

    i'm a girl and this post offends me on behalf of men!i had a couple of friends in high school who always cheated on their boyfriends and i knew guys who treated their girls with nothing but respect and wouldn't even think about straying. please don't make gender generalizations. on another note it sounds like either you don't like this guy anymore or you're just insecure. i used to be so insecure in my mid-teens (i was dating the same guy i'm with now)that the jealousy would just drive me insane and i would feel like being with other guys just to feel desired/sexy etc. Now i know that was a very immature way of thinking and wrong on so many levels and now i feel pretty silly for ever thinking like that. i would say either get out of the relationship or work on your self-esteem. good luck =)

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  • Sweetz

    If cheating ever crosses your mind then i don't think that person it right for you.

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  • Nomster!

    Wow. Steriotype much. Not all men cheat. I would never do such thing. Such horrible and disguisting acts :l

    Just dump his ass. And stop going for the bad boys. Mabey if you girls would stop complaint about how all men are bad, and actually date a gentleman then mabey you wouldent have this problem. Stupid people. (steriotype :)

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  • equanimity

    You can look, but you can't touch.

    Personally, I've never cheated on someone, but I've had plenty of opportunities. It's a commitment you make to yourself as much as you make to another person and you sometimes have to exercise some self-control to keep your integrity intact.

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  • 大塚愛714

    Dump him. It's obvious that this guy isn't worth your time because a real boyfriend will do whatever to make his girl feel less insecure in their relationship. Also, there are some guys out there that would go and hook up with different women each time, but there are some decent ones out there. There's no rush; so take your time. By the way, if you were to just hook up with a different guy each time, or whatever, there is a chance that you'll get an STD.

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  • cupcake_wants

    I realize that u have pain. Ive been there & i understand! Just dont let him steal your self esteem! [Look up definition of 'self esteem]. If u go out and hook up to get revenge, u r only hurting urself! Plz understand, ive been there done that. When i was 19, now im 37 & honestly it disgusts me to remember how i gave my self worth away. He's just a blip on the radar screen of ur life. Dont sell urself short.m

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  • NotTheSheeple

    And most don't want to admit it. It's very normal for guys too.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I can tell that your feeling very bitter. I totally understand where you coming from, but DON'T MAKE A MISTAKE. You feel like this because he's being a total A-hole, so dump his ass. You don't seem like the type to sleep around, so don't do it. There are good men out there I promise you, you just need to be picky

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  • thc123

    im sorry, i had a lot on my mind and this was kind of an emotional breakdown. i didnt even read what i wrote until now, i dont really think those things, it was just how i felt at the time. i know all men dont cheat, i just have feelings for another guy right now and the guy im with isnt exactly what i want. i dont appreciate the judgmental comments though, none of you know me, either give me some advice or gtfo. thank you all who had something decent to say i appreciate it.

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  • supercrazygerman

    i have never cheated before. when i get a girl friend i spent all my time thanking about how to make her happy. if you cheat on him you will be just like him.

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