Is it normal to want to cheat on the love of ur life?

Buy some toys and fantasize! If he did that to u it would hurt like hell!!

I think it is normal to want other sexual experiences. However I think it is something you should be open and honest with your husband. The guilt you feel is over the dishonesty. There are plenty of ways for you to explore your sexuality with your husband and other people. However if you truly love him it is a road you will travel together with openness honesty and respect.

I also agree, If he is TRULY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE, I see you wrote this about 10 months ago, I do hope and pray you were able to find the strength to maintain your urges and desires until you and your husband were together again. To throw away that one and only special person that you melt when you hear their voice, your heart races when you see them pull into the driveway. To find someone in life that you feel that way about is a once in a lifetime thing. I was first married at 19, then divorced within 2 yrs. married again at age 25, dvcd again within 3 yrs. I have had relationships since, but few and far between. I am now in my late 40's and I have no kids that I know of, I always wanted a daughter. I wanted to have my "daddys little girl". I will never experience seeing my child being born since I cant even seem to find anyone that wants me for something besides fixing their car or unplugging their toilets (AGAIN). PLEASE REMEMBER the song by Cinderella- You Dont Know what you got till its gone. Hang in their.

Fuking hell harsh comments or wha give da girl a break thoughts dont make ppl sluts and any 1 who believes they do r gobshites

Nobody gets over adultery. Make sure you weight the odds of him finding out when you do it. Also, if you have a strong conscience now...it'll be much stronger when you actually do the dead. I'm guessing it'll be shitty as hell

Slut

Its normal to want another sexual experiance, but what about your consionsce when your with him when he tells you he loves you it will repeat in your mind time and time again and never go away, noow do you really want that? x

You fucken whore! Aha

Start cheating and you won't stop. What if he found out? He would be heartbroken. If your urges to cheat get to be too much: don't be cruel, masturbate.

I'm sure some people would argue that it is normal to have a fleeting thought about being with someone else. But as far as actually cheating, not normal. I love my husband and I would never consider letting myself get in a position like that.

Guy here, this is absolutely NOT COOL. If he is in love with you like you say he is, then cheating on him will destroy him, no matter how obviously little you care about him. Ultimatum: cut his sorry ass loose from your vampiric, fantasy marriage and go fuck other people, or stay with this 'love of your life.' If he really was the love of your life you would only think of him, and the poor sap probably only thinks about you nonstop. It is SO wrong to keep him in a cage while you go flit around, not even having the decency to taunt him.

Normal if your in it for the thrill

Well if you guys are apart then what did you expect to feel? You don't want to cheat that just an excuse for yourself to satisfy your loneliness.

Totally normal. For a tramp.

It's not normal. If you really love someone you could never cheat on them. I totally get the fact on wanting to know what sex Iis like with other men if the guy you are with is the only one you have ever been with because I was in that same boat a few years back. But, I had realized that I no longer loved the guy I was with and that I was very unhappy in my relationship. Now that I'm with someone I love with all my heart I know I could never cheat on him. Because I love him and that's not something I could ever do to him. So I think you need to think long and hard about what your thinking of doing. Is it worth hurting him? Because he will find out.

Which is more important - your desire to have sex with other men, betraying your husband and making him feel inadquate, or staying with the love of your life? Once you cheat, it will NEVER be the same!!!!

I only have one question to ask; are you prepared for your man to also have sexual experiences with other women?

If u r feeling this way chances r he is having the same feelings...it is normal to want to be with other people if u have not been with differnt people....

i guess its ok if u just want to experience some new sex material. talk to him about going to a stripper or something and see how he reacts. if he feels the same way about u then he shud be fine cuz he nos tht ur totally in love with hom

Not normal at all. You should be kicked out of mainstream society for your unnormalness. Cheating never happens in any relationship these days and it is totally abnormal to cheat even when 60% of women cheat on their hubby. Sorry. You did not make the normal cut.