Is it normal to want to cheat on my boyfriend?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 1/2 months, I have a one year old daughter he treats as his own and we live together at his parents house to save money. Lately for the last week or ao I've felt distant from him. I also have a high sex drive and he knows that, and thinking he would too being a male that before me never got laid often If ever. Every time we have sex I am the one to initiate it, or cuddling or anything. He will kiss me or hug me whichever, but when it comes to sex he won't lift a finger. I'm the one typically kissing him and arousing him getting him all turned on, then sex lasts like 5 mins maybe and it's all done. He only goes down on me sometimes and when he does i sometimes fall asleep cuz he never hits the right spot. I've offered to show him and told him to look it up online and I have yet to see improvement. I've bought lingerie and went out o my comfort zone to satisfy him and yet I still get nothin back, not even him beginning to seduce me. So my question is if it is normal or not to want to I'd that satisfaction elsewhere? Trust me i have told him on numerous occasions how I feel and it's the same old, or the typical one day change and next day same old. What do I do?

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    No. Cheating makes you a slut. it's a sub-human species that still exist somehow.

    if you're not satisfied with your sex life -move on, find another guy. if you feel that he's a good dad and you want him in your life -buy a vibrator.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Cheating is never the answer.

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  • snafu
    11 years ago

    Leave him why degrade yourself, by cheating. I was going to write more but the first 7 words say it all.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    You really have to decide if you are happier with him or would you be happier without him! If the two of you were in your own place it may be different, but there is always the chance that he will always remain this way!
    There are many ways to satisfy you high sex drive, but cheering is not one I recommend with you having so much invested. Good luck with your choices

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    In this case, i can't with good conscience agree that you should cheat.

    You have a daughter he accepts and live at his parents place. You OWE him, to a degree.

    You may have told him, but did you ever really have a talk? Telling someone he's doing something wrong is a different thing from talking about reasons or motivations.

    Because if so, you failed to include his perspective or statements in your statement-section.
    If your sex drives are just too disparate, and the relationship will not work on grounds of sex, then either try and find a solution together(he sounds a bit passive there, maybe he won't mind you having sex with other man) or break up, because it won't end well once you start cheating(because from what you wrote, this will need to be a permanent thing, or repeated often).

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    he's just not that into you

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