Is it normal to want to cheat?

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I've been married for 3 years, with him for 5. Our sex life is less than desirable. I want to have sex more than he does. Im 23, and I wear a size 2. I workout and eat healthy. Guys check me out all the time, but my husband isn't interested. I can literally give him a lap dance and he won't try to initiate sex.

Also, I logically know he loves me, but I don't feeeel like he does.

Lately I've been craving physical and emotional attention. I'm not getting it from my husband, so I feel like I want it from other people. I haven't, and I won't, act on it, but I have a strong desire to find love/lust somewhere else.

Is it normal to feel this way?

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Based on 12 votes (4 yes)
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  • Track0011
    5 years ago

    I mean, why cheat on him? Why not just leave him if you feel like he doesn't love you and then find someone else more for you?

    You could also confront him and just tell him what you think.

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    How was your sex life before marriage.
    It amazes me anytime someone thinks marriage fixs everything.

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  • Tzzman
    5 years ago

    You need to communicate with him about how you feel. Maybe something is going on with him that is causing this.

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  • redeyez7
    5 years ago

    try new things to spice things up. maybe a vacation would help

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  • Akiko-kokoro
    5 years ago

    It's normal but the relationship is not healthy. Not sure how to fix it though, sorry.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    Sorry, but you are probably going to have to leave him. But, DON'T CHEAT. Initiate a divorce before you start looking for a boyfriend.

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  • lmaowhatdoiknowboutusernames
    5 years ago

    Have you ever talked with him about your desires like this?

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    It's not normal to want to cheat, ever. If you ever do it, you'll be a horrible shitty person for it. You're already pretty shitty for considering it but that's just a cherry on the top.

    You're married. Get a divorce if you want other people.

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