Is it normal to want to be with two people at once?

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So ive been with my boyfriend for a few years, and recently, reconnected with an old friend. Well we spent a few days talking and im crushing hard. I want to go do stuff with him, we text and make plans to go to the beach, play pool ext. but i feel terrible because i know he likes me as well.
He is leaving state in a few weeks, and asked me to go with him. I feel so conflicted, i honestly cant tell if i want to go because im not happy, or just immature and selfish.
I dont want to throw years down the drain, but i dont want to stay somewhere i hate when im craving this adventure.
Is this normal?

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Based on 41 votes (30 yes)
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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Your "friend" is selfish for offering this to you knowing you are in a serious relationship and it would be selfish for you to go. If you are not happy, find another way out. Wait a while after your friend leaves to see if you feel the same way. You will likely regret an impulsive decision.

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    • Blakeandersonshair
      10 years ago

      That is exactly what I'll do.

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  • 6meyou9
    10 years ago

    I to would like such a relationship

    having 2 gfs would be sweet

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