Is it normal to want to be with this someone

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We're in the same program at school and the same friends. We knew each other like 2 weeks before we had sex the first time and we texted each a lot and sat with each other and everything. He even told the girl that he was seeing at the time that he became interested in someone else because they weren't going to date because school was to important to her. But now I don't know if he's just having sex with me to have sex or wtf is going on. But everyone knows we talk and have sex so why try and hide it? And why the hell do I keep trying so hard

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  • Maybeoneday
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't be too sure he stopped seeing other girls. If he wanted a relationship he would have made that clear from the start. I wouldn't waste your time on someone who is only interested in sex, it's not worth it and in the end you get hurt because they never intended on being with you.

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  • ㅤㅤㅤ
    11 years ago

    Lol probably just the sex.

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    Dump his ass.. you deserve better

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Men are different towards sex, they feel less connection. So it might be just sex to him. There have been times when i've slept with a girls only to have them become offended that i'm not getting closer, because I forget that they might want a real relationship to come of it all.

    Men don't read signals and/or think in these terms often.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    If this is normal I fear for the youth.

    Because, yeah, he's probably just using you. Find someone who will appreciate you (and maybe take things slower next time?).

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  • Mazlow
    11 years ago

    true.. You wanna get a know how where things are going from the onset. just remember that people can be really deceptive.. what you see ain't always what you get.

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  • alison2000
    11 years ago

    Face him and ask him openly what you two are. Even by his reaction to the question, you will get an idea probably.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Why not just ask him straight up what you two are. What you mean to him. It's the only way to get an answer unfortunately. You could just text it if it's easier

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