Is it normal to want to be with someone who treated you badly

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so please read this entire thing and comment!

i've had a crush on this guy since grade 9. we dated for a couple months after we graduated (4 years later), i don't know why, but he broke it off. a year later we did the friends with benefits thing for a couple months.. about the same length of time the first time around. and it ended.. he just stopped talking to me one day. now, a couple months later we met up again and he told me that he is really sorry and wants to get back together (this would be the 3rd time around). he didn't know what he wanted before but now he does.. and it's me. this guy was/is my first and only real love (i'm 20). although he has been pretty shitty to me, it's like it doesn't even really matter. i don't know what i should do. he said that he knows it will take a while for me to regain trust in him, but he's okay with that. HELP ME PLEASE! any opinion is a good one.

PS: i'm better looking than him and he probably can't do any better, not to sound conceited or anything, it's just true

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  • Omega-Claws
    13 years ago

    The ps at the end was harsh. Don't get back with him

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  • Ilikecrisps
    10 years ago

    Lunhauser in proxy

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  • sweetlilwookims
    13 years ago

    Don't do it. I've seen this happen with really pretty girls in HS. And then this one girl, that I was close enough to that she break my heart, twice. Now, on face book she tells me that she is SO sorry and that was all wrong. She said she wanted me, but I was all comatose and stuff. DO TAKE HIM BACK. I'm like 33 now, use you young-ness and have a good time. Don't give it to somebody who will not appreciate it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Keep him for know but have your options open because he might brake your heart cause he is your high school sweet heart

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  • LIGHTHOUSE
    13 years ago

    Don't give him any importance. Hi is emotionless guy. you deserve better guy than him. He is cheating with. I Know it is tough for you. But you should be practical in your approach. Don't let anyone to play with your lovely and true emotions.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    keep him as a toy boy but when YOU want him NOT when he wants it. i wouldnt suggest having a serious relationship with this guy, people dont change overnight and i dont think he will change. he keeps dragging you back because you put up with his crap and he knows it and takes advantage of you.

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