Is it normal to want to be tied up
is it normal to have a fantasy about being tied up and taken advantage of ?
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is it normal to have a fantasy about being tied up and taken advantage of ?
no, not normal.
not normal that it's just a phantasy, that is :D
Go make it happen, it's grandious.
How about I put a collar on you and take you for a walk through the busiest areas in town...?
i want to but my boyfriend thinks im weird for wanting it so i think he secretly wants to do it but hes an odd ball so i think hell never admit it,,i mean ive asked him to tell me his fantasys and he said ive did everytghing ive wanted to do get my dick sucked and have reg sex,,okkkk really so boaring,,how do i get him to want to play more?
maybe tease him some and playfully tell him once that he's not gettin' any unless he restrains you, then "fight back"? and take it from there?
Or just straight out request it(birthday or something if regular is not accepted) and see if he can't bring himself to like it...
I don't think it'll be so great with him - he seems way to vanilla to make it exciting. I've had it done to me and it was really good because the person knew how to tease me and make me beg. Maybe you should tie him up first so he gets the idea of how it should work.
yeah ur so right on that..he is and it prob would b bad,,i could just imagine,,hes so boaring,,he says hes satisfied as long as his dick gets sucked and he has reg sex..i asked him if he had any fantasys and thats what he said,i ve done everything i wanted to and thats what he said i get my dick sucked and have sex..ughh that made me kinda aggravated
He really does sound pretty unadventurous! And these things are so much better when they are unexpected by the other person/unplanned.
I can understand your frustration - you're at an age where you want to experiment new things and he is denying you the chance of any new adventures. Maybe try watching some porn with him - that might spark some interest in trying something new.