Is it normal to want to be selfish

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so i have been with my boyfriend for a short time like 7 months but we both love eachother that much is for sure but wat i want to know is is it normal that i want more from him i want to live together i want to get married have kids and yet he has given me a time line as to when he would like it to happin but noone has stoped to concider wat i want i am giving him everything he wants im being patent i guess all i wanna know is if it is normal for me to feel that im giving so much but im not getting anything i want or dreams i wish to come true instead im giving everyone around me including him wat they want instead IS IT NORMAL TO WANT TO FEEL SELFISH FOR A BIT AND NOT GIVE EVERYONE WAT THEY WANT

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Based on 38 votes (27 yes)
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  • Hooviva
    13 years ago

    Take a break, if you're so disgustingly unselfish that it makes you sick, spoil yourself. Take some responsibility, do stuff for yourself. From the day you were very small you learned to dress yourselves. If you believe being happy for yourself is a bad thing, then perhaps you're saying making yourself sick is good. Take your medicine, ignoramus!

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  • Hooviva
    13 years ago

    Mr or Ms risari, do you not realise that selfishness is only a bad thing through threat, intimidation, and illegal activity, and that selfishness is legal and any adult can choose to do what she or he wants? If she wants to be selfish, you're not exactly with political science, considering that we all agree to look after ourselves, to do stuff in our best interests. You can't force people to dislike themselves, loving yourself is a wonderful thing.

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  • Hooviva
    13 years ago

    Follow your dreams, achieve your ambitions. You have potential, and you're a very good person. Everyone has potential. Being selfish for a bit may be good to calm your nerves, considering that you do it privately and no-one pays a visit. Eat some healthy food, get what you need, do what interests you, way too cool!

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  • risarai
    13 years ago

    ops one more thing if u knew how to read then u would have to complain about my spelling and its not spelling mistakes it slang

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  • tarebear19
    13 years ago

    If you knew how to spell, maybe I could help you. From what I could read, you are being way too selfish. It has only been 7 months, which is nothing. Try 7 years and then maybe it won't be so selfish. I hate women like you, haha

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    • risarai
      13 years ago

      and for ur info i am very unselfish i do soooo much for everyone around me that i have found myself getting sick i never do anything for me oh and me and him are at a year now and do u think we have moved anyforther then where we were before not a chance in fact we seem to have moved backwards so before u go being a stupid bitch hows about u stick to the question i didnt ask if i was selfish i asked if it was normal to want to be selfish for a short bit for once in my 22 years thank u for ur comment but keep it to urself

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    • risarai
      13 years ago

      then maybe u should keep ur mouth shut i didnt ask for ur negative comment i asked a question so beat it

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