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I have always wanted a baby. I cannot wait to get big and have swollen feet and go through agonizing labor. idk why I just do is this normal?
desperate much ucipher8! im reading a lot of haters on here presuming a lot of things about just one comment. i say ur a woman who has wants needs and desires. its normal ur normal.
Just don't kill it if you change your mind before its birth. Adoption always better than killing it.
Also I'd like to add. Ignore the people who assume just because you want to have a child you aren't willing to care for it. They don't know shit. But neither do I, perhaps they're right on the money.
It's part of the natural cycle of mammals like yourself and I. Sexual desire is also a natural part of this.
I want a kid bad. but im stuck as im a single guy that cant do anything right now. If it happens, then sure, but I want it to be with someone who will stick around. That solely should be your only thought if you decide to.
Normal, yes. Smart, no. The fact your fixating on the pregnancy more so then the actual care for a child is a really big red flag. Until you're stable enough to care and raise a child properly, getting pregnant will be a massive mistake.
This has been posted so many time that I don't even feel like typing out a long answer so yes, biologically, it is normal. SEARCH BAR GODDAMIT >.< Please don't have kids until you can learn to follow directions fuuucccckkkk
Well, if you are financially stable, have a good, STRONG relationship with the man you choose to father it, have a place of your own, and you are over the age of 21 (I say this because people go through a lot of changes) and are for certain that this is what you want in life, go for it.
And also like charli.m said, make sure you realize that having a child isn't just about getting pregnant. Also, you are bringing a whole nother human being into the world, and your job as a mother NEVER ends. You have to be willing to take care of this child, be there when he/she needs you, love and support him/her, be able to discipline, and never give up because it gets hard. And it WILL get hard.
If you don't want to have a baby for the privilege of raising a child, don't fucking do it. Some of us would do anything for that privilege, so idiots like you who don't seem to realise the value of the actual child are not appreciated.
umm I am willing to take care of my child and love him/her. thank you very much. and that's the main reason for getting pregnant is to have a baby that you can love and take care of forever. I would always be there to love my child no matter what mistakes he or she makes. so keep your hatin' to yourself. jerk.
Do you want to give birth or do you just want 9 months of pregnancy?
Ill get you pregnant as long as i find you attractive and as long as you decide to live with me and raise the kid with me together. if you date or see other people thats fine, just don't bring them to our house unless i am comfortable with it.
Im not asking for marriage, i just want to raise children with someone that i trust to be a good parent.