Is it normal to want to be more feminine

I'm 25, but nearly all my life treated/dressed like a boy (not choice, poor family relied on hand downs) but as I got older I still dressed like a tomboy as this is what was 'normal' for me. I have relationships where I obviously want to look a little sexier at times, but feel REALLY uncomfortable with dresses/make up. I feel I look hideous if I try! I'm not ugly, nor fat, just not into change!

I don't want to be like this.

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  • Gasmasker

    I'm like you, except I'm content to stay this way. Formal events? Puh-PAYUNNTS!
    If you want to start dressing with more frilly or "girly" stuff, go for it! But first, be sure you really want it. Do it if you like it better, not just because you think your gender requires it.

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  • Serena87

    Longest, yet most helpful!

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  • Rin✿

    I second Space_Ghost?.

    I don't like wearing dresses other than for special occasions.

    I am in love with jeggings. You could try those if you'd like. I think they make me look more feminine and if you have the right body type they'd probably look good on you too. I honestly think I can wear any type of top and look feminine if I'm wearing jeggings or skinny jeans. You might not like shoes with heels, but you could try regular sandals with heels or sandals with designs and whatnot.

    I don't like wearing makeup all the time but I'll either use mascara, eyeliner, &/or eyeshadow. I love eyeshadow because it doesn't take long to put on (although I'm probably not putting it on right XP) and it comes in any color you can think of.

    Accessories go a long way. You could wear a watch, or a bracelet or necklace. Earrings also, I love hoop earrings. I actually only own one or two of each type of jewelry. XD

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