Is it normal to want to be like people i'm attracted to?

I hope this makes sense.
If i'm really attracted to someone, i often find myself wanting to be like them or even BE them.

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Based on 89 votes (68 yes)
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  • Sumi

    Imitation is the greatest form of flattery. The one someone is takes a combination of experiences in life so.. you could never be them. Live the lifestyle? Sure. Take the best parts and throw the rest away.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Yeah, me too. I thought I was the only one. I always wondered why that is.

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  • Do you often find that you want to be inside their skin?
    You know, like, looking through their eyes? Literally.

    There are some really useful cookery classes that teach you to skin an animal. Try skinning a pig. Very similar to humans. Should really help you to get into that place in life where you're really inside someone looking out.

    A little fashion tip for you to remember, it's best to go for someone slightly smaller than you. That skin-tight thing is just so hot.

    There's even a few good movies about that kind of thing.

    Enjoy.

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    • KeddersPrincess

      Alright. I'll skin Gerard Way. Thanks for the tip!

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      • And it'll be three cheers for sweet revenge, my precious.

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  • Legion

    id say so, you wouldent be crushing on them if they didnt have traits you desire, right? Also, to improve ones lot in life is natural.

    so for example, for a shy person to crush on someone who has a more outgoing personality probably is partly cause they see themselves that way and want to be that.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I've wanted to improve myself in every which way but never be them.

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