Is it normal to want to be in love, but not want a spouse?

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For whatever reason I want to love and to be in love so bad that I keep talking to all the guys that I truly don't care about. I have always been a short term dater, sometimes I just want the attention so I make it easy for the guy to love me then after 4 months (at the most),I am beyond done with him. I used to find comfort knowing somebody was hurting as much as I am inside, because i want to be in love so badly. I am starting to see i don't want a boyfriend and i don't even see a husband in my future. I just want to have that feeling of being in love. Is this normal?

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Based on 60 votes (48 yes)
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  • LOUi_CUDi
    12 years ago

    for what.? And then u get your heartbroken i feel i like shit.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Lol I know this is a typo, but I couldn't help but laugh xD

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      • LOUi_CUDi
        12 years ago

        Lol. Shit I hope no else notices.

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        • abominus566
          12 years ago

          well people can help you, you just have to let them in is all, and well you can agree everything is better with friends and family, they will help you the most.

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    You can feel love but not be in a romantic relationship.. I love all of my friends and feel loved back. You don't need a partner to feel it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I guess you're in love with the initial feeling of BEING in love, and then when it inevitably fades you dump the guy and go looking for that feeling again. I understand it totally, but it does suck for the guys.

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    • carterjm4
      12 years ago

      Exactly. I love being in love, but hate the actual relationship parts.

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  • abominus566
    12 years ago

    after reading that, it sounds like your still finding your self if you know what i mean. you will find the right one there is a saying for this "good things come to people who are patient. You will feel even better when you get what you want by knowing you were willing to wait for it. if that make any sense just trting to help though.

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    • carterjm4
      12 years ago

      thanks :) it helps alot. Another problem is that I am far from patient. I must have control. I swear I got anxiety issues.

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  • scumfuck
    11 years ago

    slut

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  • robbieforgotpw
    11 years ago

    In love with the idea of being in love?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    What are you looking for?

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    • carterjm4
      12 years ago

      I am definitely looking for a relationship, but I really don't want a bf, like not at all. Men are such a headache and i don't want to go sleeping around. i am confused as to what to do with myself. I have a good heart, I just don't know anymore. I've lost hope when it comes to love in relationships.

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  • carterjm4
    12 years ago

    Yeah I always tell myself i love the person I am dating or i "truly" care about them, but really don't. I kind of lost hope. I want children, but I don't see a husband in the picture. I don't think I am going to find the right person, nor do I want to. Idk what's wrong with me. Btw I have had my heartbroken twice, but even then I recovered quickly because guys generally love me.

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