Is it normal to want to be in a "domestic discipline" relationship?

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I have always thought spankings were sexually stimulating, and recently I discovered a kind of practice called "domestic discipline" where the husband uses spanking to discipline the wife for any misbehavior throughout the marriage. The spankings would not necessarily be entirely sexual, and I would be allowed to feel like a child, and be able to trust my husband with my well-being. I think it sounds wonderfully inviting, the security and protection of it all. And all those spankings sound inviting at the moment too. I wonder though, do you guys think this kind of relationship is abusive, or will lead to abuse? Does anyone else long for this kind of relationship? Oh, by the way, I am not married. Just speculating about my future relationship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I could never see myself in a situation like that, but I don't think it's abnormal.

    I think you could do it if you established a trusting relationship with the man first and have a safe-word that he will respect if you use it.

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  • Softkittie
    7 years ago

    Hi, I am beginning to think about the qualities I want in my next partner. It's hard to necessarily put into words since I am afraid that I will find someone who embodies "be careful what you wish for" and takes these ideas to an uncomfortable extreme.

    I want a man who makes me feel beautiful, strong, intelligent and that he is grateful that we are building a life together. I also want him to be clear and direct about his needs and how he wants our life to run. I want something that is a little old fashioned. I am his mate, not his boss. I follow his lead. I am not a slave nor am I treated as such. We respect each other. However, because I respect him and pledge to be his, I want to know what his rules and standards are. I want to know that if I misbehave and step out of line, he will love me enough to correct me. It cannot be arbitrary or random. That our relationship is a priority. It's not easy to be consistent or to discipline with love and maturity.

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  • Boo!
    11 years ago

    If your ok with it and want it (hehe) then by all means cary on! It sounds kind of like soumething you'd try in bed.. hmm Maybe I'm looking at it in a different way.

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  • Wendell
    11 years ago

    What an awesome undercover name for wife-beating. The security aspect sounds creepy, then again, maybe Warren Jeffs is your kind of person.

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    • Loretta
      5 years ago

      It's not wife beating if she consents. And who cares if it's normal as long as it works?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I'm quite sure submissiveness and polygamy are not mutually inclusive. However, you have a good point, that there is a fine line between DD and abuse. However, I am weird, in that I think listening to your husband, being submissive, caring, and helpful is the way things are supposed to be. And security may be a strange word, but it would make me feel more cared for if someone loved me enough to correct me in a loving way when I was wrong.

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      • Softkittie
        7 years ago

        Very well said.

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      • Wendell
        11 years ago

        Ok

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  • ebulliance
    11 years ago

    It sounds creepy to me, but whatever floats your boat...

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  • Java
    11 years ago

    I think it sounds hot.

    For whatever reason, I've always thought being married and pregnant with a man who is probably guilty for robberies, we're poor so we'd have to be moving around a lot, probably in an old boat by the docks, a shack or perhaps an old building. Even a car!

    And yes, he'd probably throw half-full beer bottles at me from time to time, but I wouldn't mind it.

    That sounds delightful to me♥

    I like to, "play pretend" with my friends when we play GTA4 on our PS3s via bluetooth, it's SO much fun.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Never thought about it before, but it seems like there is potential for that to be quite stimulating sexually.

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    I'm a guy and I don't find that exciting, personally. However different people have various relationship needs and if it's done with both sides' consent.. then why not? I say, normal.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    You sound like you are somewhat special, and exciting

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Thank you, that's wonderful to hear! I always thought/hoped this would be something a lot of guys would be into. Well, I am guessing you're a guy?

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      i agree, she must be "special"

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