Is it normal to want to be genderless?

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I am physically a female, and I look very female (I don't look like a lesbian, or a boy). But sometimes I wish I could just be genderless. Not belong to any stereotype, but also be able to switch back and forth. I have hair that goes below my shoulders, but I wish I could get something a bit longer than a buzz cut. Long hair is pointless to me, but I feel like I'm obligated to have it.
I don't have very big boobs anyways, but I can remember when I was young, and I did have any at all, and I wish I could go back to that.
It's not that I want to be a boy, I don't wish to have a penis. I just wish I was gender neutral most of the time and other times I could play the part of a girl (dresses, high heels, long hair) or a boy (baggy jeans, t-shirts, short hair...no boobs).
Is this normal?

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Do it! Not meaning this in an insulting way, but I'm sure trannys feel the same way. And they totally find their way around it

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Thats wierd you sound like a greedy pig

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    I'm not gonna lie, that DOES sound Awesome (as long as there are no gay intentions behind it)

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  • Imposturously_yours
    11 years ago

    Well, welcome to the world of professional fitness and athletics. Most of the girls I know don't have any boobs, because when your pectoralis major (chest muscles) is very developed, boobs kinda go away. Most of these girls also have short hair -when you're working out and sweating most of your day and still have to look presentable, you don't really have a choice. And I have to say, these ladies don't look "masculine" at all. Many also have hetero families. In my world it's very accepted to "look your job". Of course, female body-builders are something else. I wasn't talking about them here.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    That is not really gender neutrality, I think what you are wanting is to be able to have a choice in what type of style you want to have without having to WORRY about gender standards (as in, being considered "butch" for having short hair and likewise for male standards).

    I understand what you are saying and it is normal to wish that you had more of a choice regarding socially acceptable and gender acceptable style.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    What I really want, is to not be judged because I want to be genderless. And not be thought of as an attention whore. Does that sound impossible? Yes.
    Right now we are just working on getting same-sex marriage legalized in ALL of the united states. And then... the world! Muhaha!

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Being curious about yourself is definitely normal! :)

      What you're describing doesn't really seem what I would consider as "gender neutral." It's more likely that you would like to experience both male and female gender stereotypes whenever you feel like it. Why not then? If it makes you happy to do that and you're not hurting anyone, then what is stopping you from just being that way?

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