Is it normal to want to be friends with your bf's ex?

So my bf's ex seems really cool. I think we'd have a lot in common and probably be good friends. I mean who says you have to hate your bf's exes anyways?? And quite frankly, I'm tired of being anti-social and mean to everyone. It's exhausting.

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  • You probably do have a lot in common with her because people generally have a "type" when they date and you both are probably his "type".

    Unless she did something to you, you have no logical reason to dislike her.

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    • PapzBSlim

      You took the words right from under my finger tips. My recent exes have similarities but do not resemble each other. They are just the same type, brunette and nice buttocks lol.

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  • Mmmpfh

    Well it's pretty cool that you're open-minded like that! Most people would just mutter "that bitch" and try to stay away from them, regardless of who they are.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    you just want swap sex secrets don't ya dirty perv.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I'm friends with ex's girlfriend. Who's now also his ex. She's cool beans. We totally used to talk about him behind his back trolololol he was a major douch pants.

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  • MeHTa

    True... Watch a American Dad episode about Steve bringing his wife's ex bf into a picture and wanting to see who she is going to choose. My question would be, how did you even get around your bfs ex? I dono, i honestly wouldn't... And i get where you are coming from but you do have a stand. To answer your question, You are his gf... I mean you wouldn't want your bf being all best friends with your exes... You can't hide an elephant in a closet forever...

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  • I don't really intend to bring her around him. I'm not completely nuts lol But as someone I might hang out with seperately. And honestly if they still want each other who am I to stop them? I would just be setting myself up for heartbreak. I would just be better off to count my losses and walk away with my dignity.

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  • MeHTa

    Just be careful because she could have alternative motives. It could all turn sour... Speaking from an experience here. I was the ex... Not that i had motives but lets just say, a couple of too many drinks and things happened. Because my intention wasn't to break up my ex bf and his gf it remained a secret. You just can't fight these stupid past feelings when you are wasted even if they are in the past. Good luck to you.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I did it.

    I wish better luck to you.

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