Is it normal to want to be cheated on?

Dump her now, silly rabbit

And they say women are crazy...

You are looking for a reason to dump her... If you truly want her to cheat you don't love her. Just break up then if that's the case.

So I am a bit confused... Are you mad becuz you love her but she don't pay any attention to you, don't flirt with you and always make you jealous? Or do you just don't like her and want to dump her but need a reason? Becuz if you do love her and just mad becuz she doesn't give you the attention you deserve then just tell her. Try to spice your relationship up by flirting with her and mayb even try sexting her on the phone. Be fun, creative and stop being so angry. She may be doing it to get your attention becuz she may feel the same way. She may feel that you are never giving her any attention and never flirting with her. She may feel that you don't like her or love her anymore. Show her a little more attention and see where that goes. If it doesn't work out then that might be her personality and you might want to leave her if it makes you to uncomfortable. Its a waste of time trying to change people. If you really don't like her anymore then just dump her. Stop trying to look for a reason or for drama. That is very abnormal. Sometimes relationships don't work out, it doesn't mean your failure its just apart of life.

Call it off, minus waiting on the drama. There is such a thing as incompatability. You are wasting her time.

Shes a huge freaking flirt tho and she doesnt respect me in that case so what now?

Pick up her phone and I she fights back she is cheating

I tapped her rack. twice. in a taxi...

Trust is something hard to maintain when your with someone who makes you feel that they would rather keep doing things with the opposite sex that you don't feel comfortable with. If there was any respect from your partner she would not do anything to make you feel that way. My beliefs are never do to someone what you wouldn't want done to you. I have trust issues in my marriage and trust me it's horrible. I'm trusted so why do our partners hurt us by thriving on making us constantly feel jealous insecure and say things that get our minds going. I personally would not do something that would make my partner feel uncomfortable or do something I knew was wrong when in a committed relationship. I believe in getting your happiness admiration attention from the one your with and love not outside of that.

If you don't trust her, dump her now. Obviously you don't care about her.

You're skeptical of her loyalty, and don't seem to have trust in and, thus, love for her (perfectly fine), so I can understand why you're feeling this.
You feel betrayed already and suspect more to come, so you want proof so you can end it now.
This could take time, so really I'd just end it now. I wouldn't mention cheating in the breakup, as you've no proof, just say you've lost trust in her and can't accept her behaviour outside your relationship (taxi with men). End it and move on.