Is it normal to want to be alone?

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Me and my first boyfriend have had a a beyond bumpy relationship..

We've lost almost everything we gained in this relationship.
Trust, closeness (literal distance, over 500 miles apart) , our firstborn, everything.

A small part of me wants to be with him because I love him to pieces and we're practically two of a kind.

But now that we're far apart, I can't shake the dream I've been havin of being alone.
Before my dream was to have a house, him and our son.
Now I jus want to be alone until I'm tired of being lonely.
I jus wanna go to work, come home, and live alone.

I like being alone. And the thought of havin him or any man livin with me all my life in marriage or jus a boyfriend makes me nauseous.

Note I don't have close family, I don't have friends or even bother tryna make them..
And it's not depression. I jus dont wanna deal with ppl and their emotional baggage..

And is it normal to WANT to be alone?

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Based on 28 votes (26 yes)
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  • cȱɱpɩɛx
    10 years ago

    I can QUITE understand. The SAME thing happened to ME once. After IT did, I was never the same again. And I NEVER will be again.

    Amen to that.

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  • Thatguy777
    10 years ago

    As an only child I fear that this will happen to me as well. I want a real relationship with someone, but I'm so used to being by myself, I don't know if I could handle it. Needless to say, I understand how you feel.

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