Is it normal to want to be a prostitute?

Well the title really says it all. I've got two more years at school and people have asked me what I want to do when I leave school. Most of the time is say makeup artist or hair dresser but inside I know what I really want to be. I just want to have fun with different guys and I'll even get paid for it. To give pleasure and be pleasured all while earning money sounds like a dream. IIN?

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Based on 191 votes (92 yes)
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  • partofeveryone

    It is nothing like what you think. You will be spit on, stepped on, treated like dirt. You will service horrible "customers" and work for even more horrible bosses. Wouldn't you rather do something important? Leave your mark on people in a way that wasn't degrading and socially frowned upon? I don't know about you, but I want to do something important with my life. I want to change the world. Aspiring to be a sex toy, and object to be taken advantage of... Its unfathomable to me.

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    • hottmess

      agreed. girl, you should probably talk to a therapist about this. urges like these are not normal, a lot of times victims of sexual trauma act out by being prostitutes... im a psychology major so i could go on for days about this. but you should go to therapy to see whats making you want to be a prostitute, because this isn't normal. but that doesnt make you a bad person.

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    • White___October

      That's certainly true for some prostitutes, but not for all of them. It certainly makes a difference if you're a street prostitute or if you work in a private house.

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  • AnalyticalAm

    Seriously, if that's what you want to do, get into porn. Don't become a prostitute. At least porn is safer and you get to decide if you are comfortable with what you have to do on camera. I'm not into porn and that stuff, but saw a talk show once and porn girls were on it talking about what you don't see in porn that makes it less disgusting.

    If you know what you want to do, no one can convince you otherwise. But consider porn instead. partofeveryone is right about prostitution. Forgot to mention the prospect of rape, though. Rape because they don't want to pay, rape because who will believe you, rape because you didn't want to do that sex act and they want you to.

    Think it through. If sex is what you want to do for a living, at least choose the one that will be better for you.

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    • dude_Jones

      If working the porn industry does not work out, consider being a sexual therapist for handicapped people. It will take extraordinary compassion, but you will give very unfortunate people the fulfillment that their hearts deserve.

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  • Sabby

    And STD's have fun!

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    • White___October

      That risk isn't too big if you always use a condom.

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader

    Naive to think you'll have nice sex with good looking friendly men.
    It will be the opposite.

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  • Sidekickz

    there are no cool guys there only old dirty men!

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox

    i really doubt it will be like what you think...

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  • Truth_teller

    Try being an escort girl instead! You get to ride in the back of limos and you have reoccuring clients

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  • thinkwithlogics

    Kind beautiful words... I hope u reached her because your words I can tell came from the heart.

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  • Downcast7

    Just be careful. With whatever you do. :)

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  • beastie

    Remember you won't be young and pretty for long. The older you get, the harder it will be to earn money in this way. When you're an ole crone (and in this game you WILL age fast). You'll end up having to pay the guys to screw you in the end!!

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  • REvEnGE

    Really? Thats new.

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  • lilmissnaughty

    I know that charming young handsome men wont come and pay me. 99% of the time it will be sick men who don't get attention from women unless they pay for it (or rape). But I can't get it out of my head that that's all I'll get to do. I'm hoping I won't EVER actually do this but it's just in the back of my mind.

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  • meowchickameowmeow

    Dude why don't you just slut around. I mean you don't get paid for it but at least you know your not fucking a bunch of diseased nasties

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  • If you want to be one, that's your choice, there is nothing wrong with having that choice. It's your body, you do what you want, I don't see anything wrong with it. However, don't assume that you'll have great looking sensible, kind hearted, treat you with respect customers. Sure, maybe some might be like that just wanting a good time, but I surely they will be the minority of your customers.
    I think you wanting to do it is your choice, nothing wrong or good about it, but just remember that it won't be charming people you have as customers.

    Also, don't serial killers usually go for prostitutes to be their victims? I don't know, I'm pretty sure they do...

    As much as my last part is unlikely to happen, I think my other points should be things you think about.

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  • lilmissnaughty

    I guess maybe its cause I don't seem to be good at anything else... Also thanks for the idea of going into the porn industry, I've thought about that too :)

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  • love_intheair

    i had wanted to be a prostitude when i grow up too.and im only 16.whats not good about having pleasure everytime you go to work?
    but think of your family members,what would they think?they would be disapointed in you,friends would look down on you,and you would be called a slut.so is that really what you want?think about it:)

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    • White___October

      Eventough the question is not mine, I do have the same dream. I did think about this a lot and it's not so bad.

      My parents would not be disappointed in me. They know I want to become a prostitute and still they say I should follow my dreams. I'm already being called a slut and I'm even proud of that, I want to be a slut. My friends love me for it!

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  • White___October

    I got the same idea as you do, so I'm fully behind you on this. I can only encourage you to follow your dreams and I hope you find a nice job.

    Don't let all those comments about rude customers scare you off, if you go to work for the right kind of business it's not that bad. Private houses are a lot better than street prostitution.

    Of course it's a bit weird to say to your family you want to become a prostitute. You haven't done so yet, but one day you have to and then it's better to know how you're going to say it. I did tell my parents I want to become a prostitute and eventough they were not completely happy they said I had to follow my dreams.

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  • White___October

    I think you're the one being misinformed. Yes, it's true what you say when it comes to street prostitutes, the lowest class in prostitution. But the more respected businesses are not that bad. Of course you got to work for your money, but that's the same in every job.

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  • yessgetlow

    You shouldn't become a prostitute. As someone stated, become a porn star or something. You will be treated bad and that really isn't the life. Think about the diseases. Good luck!

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  • lyppy

    If you start bleeding, they will not stop.

    I wouldn't risk dying from my job.

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  • anonymousthinker

    Guess its normal nowadays dats y i hate kids . U see people the new generation is fucked up!!! I blame the jews

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    • White___October

      Blame yourself!

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  • Avant-Garde

    You're living in a fantasy and if you decide to pursue this "dream" of yours Then be prepared for a cruel awakening! Do you want men to treat you like shit? Do you want to get a STD? Do you want to possibly endanger your life? How could you possibly want that?!

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    • White___October

      You got a very narrow mind when it comes to prostitution. Yes, it's true what you say when it comes to street prostitution. But things are not that bad in the higher class prostitution businesses like private houses.

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      • Avant-Garde

        You do have a point. I try to be open to things, but I still have retained some of the rigid teachings from my childhood. *Sigh*

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  • beastie

    If you think it's so great, go up to the next smelly toothless drunk homeless tramp you see and offer him sex. If you enjoy it, you can start charging.... remember to get the cash up front, mind!

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  • milkymum

    dont make yourself a prostitiute, if you wnat top lay on your back well do it but with guys you wnat to and and not guys just paying for it cos they wont make you excited and you wont be atracted to them, do as i do let any guy you like get to have you.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Ive seen several documentaries on sex workers who, guess what, actually enjoy what they do. If you're working for some back alley pimp or in a shady business, there will be rapes and nasty men and all that, but there are escort services and more legitimate businesses that protect their women and screen their clients.

    However, the fact that you think this is all you can do concerns me. I don't know you but we all have our nautural strengths and weaknesses; find those and find the things you enjoy; you're too young to be sure of what you'll do for the rest of your life.

    The real issue in his post is the fact that, in most places in America at least prostitution is illegal, which is why it's so dangerous. Legality would bring regulation and protection to sex workers, but too many conservatives have a stick up their ass. Let people who truly want to do sex work do it and do it safely.

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  • mattsaballer5

    I got 40 bucks!!!! JK go into porn

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  • zchristian

    If you ever get to be one your life will get harder and even if you decide not to be one anymore you wont just be able to take any job you like because many dont want a exprostitute working for them so you will be much much better of never considering it...

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yep everyone does it

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  • visualkeirockstar

    Get in the porn business tons of money goes there

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  • 1marcelfilms

    If you get payd, and all the mony is for you (nott for like your boss) and its good,

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    • Avant-Garde

      Now, if a person is pimping themselves from a property that they own, like their home, they should be able to retain their profits. However, I think hoes that are hooked up to pimps have to forfeit all of the money they make to their poppies. The hoe is doing all of the hard work while their pimp gets to live in their hard earnings.

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    • Avant-Garde

      It doesn't work that way. It is not like being a doctor and having your own private practice, but still, usually you don't retain ALL of the profits. If you have a secretary or are renting instead of owning the building, you would still have to pay. Unless of course, you've got some kind of deal that for whatever reason you don't have to pay these parties. If you own the building, then you would have to pay the bills for the building. Bills like; water, heating and electric, etc.

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    • White___October

      That's impossible since the business has it's expenses too. Housing, cleaning, water, electricity, it all costs money.

      There are two ways a prostitute can get paid. You can either get a certain percent of all the money you earn (but if you got no customers you earn nothing) or you can just get a fixed wage just like any other employee. Wages in prostitution are high, but not unlimited.

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