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Hello, me and my bf really want to do this we've talked for a long time and now have finally agreed to Persue the idea,
We have no idea where to start or what the rules are, my bf just want to watch me while maybe getting oral at the same time? Anyone got any ideas that can help us?
If you're both into the idea, then fine. Please be responsible, though. Also, if one of you decides it's not what you want, then you should stop.
The concept of trying something new can be exciting as long as you're sure you want to do this 100% and i mean both of you.
If not the results can be devastatin.
Ive been to swingers clubs with my man, its quite interesting.. People are randomly fucking everywhere.. its fun though if ur not a prude. lol
Normal and more common than you might think. The female gets the last word about who participates. You must be absolutely honest with your gf/wife. Be careful of where you swing because of social diseases. Condoms, proof of testing if possible.
There are a few very reputable swinger clubs (and some much riskier ones) that will charge you $20-30 or so and upwards of $100 or more for special events which are not really necessary for swinging. There is risk involved as in many other social situations.
Play nice and watch out for unicorns.
Very normal. It only becomes a relationship problem if one of you becomes insecure and has the feeling you enjoy it with others more than them. Be respectful and don't forget your true partner.
The rules are simple, no means no and the ladies have the first and last word.
Google etiquette for swingers lots of your questions will be answered there. If you follow the rules it will be some of the best experiences you will have.
Enjoy.