Is it normal to want something more?

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I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a couple of years, he is sweet but I feel like I need something more. I have a job and he doesn't, I'm trying to save some money so I can move away. Lately I have been talking to two other guys, I seem to be falling for them too. I'm at a stage where I want to move to a big city and find a good job and become independent. I don't know what to do. My heart is confused. Do I stay where I am where I am not always happy? Do I move a few hours away to be with one other guy in a city I'm familiar with? Or should I take a big step and move interstate to be with another guy? I'm completely lost and confused and I feel like a horrible person.

Stay where you are, familiar but not always happy. 0
Move a few hours away where you have more opportunities 8
Move interstate and start fresh, scary but exciting. 8
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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Sound like you've outgrown this good man and it's time to spread your wings and move on.

    You really need to go coz if you don't you will forever live 'if only....' and resent him for holding you back. Go ahead and live your life to the full. If you don't like the big smoke you can always come back home.

    Go for it and good luck!

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    • Saycheese
      12 years ago

      I agree on this for sure. ^^

      You don't want to be thinking the what if. If you still think about your current boyfriend in the future maybe you two could be back together but think about yourself in this situation. Which choice would make you feel the best? Plus don't feel like a bad person, your interest in him just dropped. It's normal to be curious and want to have different experiences in your life. Take what you can get.

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  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    Only move completely if your sure you can make it on your own.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You shouldn't of got with a man that didn't fit your likes in the first place. The only victim here would be the man, because you got in a relationship with him just because he's "sweet" and no are going to be with another guy.

    Pick your partners more carefully. It's not fair on the man if you make him love you, then leave him for another man simply because youdidn't think "Hmm, what do we have in common that gives us reason to be together".

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  • Megid
    12 years ago

    Your boyfriend doesn't have a job? How old is he? Is he disabled?
    Are you funding his lifestyle or is his parents.

    If the former is true, leave him.

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