Is it normal to want someone you can never have?

I used to really like this guy.. I messed up and he deleted my number and everything. It's been 2 months already and I still can't get him off my mind. I tried talking to him, but he hung up the phone.I miss him so much. Is it normal to be like this over someone who will never be yours?

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Based on 101 votes (89 yes)
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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yes it is.

    Have a nice day.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Yeah, it happens. Your only human. But you could've had him at one time, right? Let this be your lesson.

    For now, if you've already tried to apologize, which I'm sure you have(but like you said; he hung up the phone), he obviously feels really hurt, and isn't buying it. So, thats his problem if he wants to hold a grudge. But you did what you had to do. Its sad and unfortunate, but you have to move on now.

    If you want to try apologizing one last time..., instead of by phone, try doing it face to face, or send an email or something. If he still can't accept that you're sorry and that you want to move passed this, then its time to let go. :/

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  • Redlegs24

    Yes it's normal but if it doesn't work out with him you'll just have to move on eventually

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  • dirtybirdy

    Get over it already. There are more people in the world ya know

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  • Thatguy777

    Don't give up just yet. Try apologizing in person, and give him some time, and hopefully he will come around.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    Quit stalking him

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  • NiceKitty

    Distract yourself. Find healthier things to obsess over.
    He is obviously not working out, so move on with your life and things will feel much better.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    I feel exactly the same at the moment. I have lost yet another lover. I miss him a lot but distance makes it so much easier.
    These things take time unfortunately. Don't try and contact him again because it will make you feel worse.

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