Is it normal to want somebody to seriously hurt me?

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I'm not depressed.
I don't mean sexual abuse.
I didn't have abusive childhood.
I've done many things in consensual BDSM way, but I'd really like to feel how it's like to lose control truly, not just pretending.

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Based on 23 votes (7 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    If you really wanna get hurt go pick a fight with a Samoan!
    ;-)

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I can never understand why some people wish bad things upon themselves.

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  • PossumMom
    9 years ago

    BOTH! Normal to 'want' and 'think', fantasize, write about, all that. But the avoidance of pain is hardwired and if you want it, you might be sublimating and want something INTENSE and "rushy". Creeps that are willing to help you with this might fuck you up long time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    No,it's not normal,I myself have felt this way at times in my life

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    Well, if you really want it... *smacks yo-- gurt packs* I'll be eating this, and I don't want to hurt you at all... You thought I was going to "cyberhit" you? Nonsense.

    But, it sounds like you have the almost perfect life. Just that one dust particle, and it'll be clean! ...The dust particle is your wish to get hurt...

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  • Anime7
    9 years ago

    Interesting. I'm not sure if it's normal but I can sort of understand. From what I've heard of people who are into those sort of things it's all about losing control. Honestly I don't really have much advice on whether this is normal or not. I feel like all I can say is be careful what you wish for.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you have a past history of abuse and neglect to me.

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