Is it normal to want somebody to belong to you?

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Lately I have been feeling like EVERYBODY wants to take my boyfriend away from me. I have this urge to snap at everyone who talks at him. I know I'm jealous, and I have always been. But never to this point. It's f**king scaring me. I have no idea what to do, or how to put my head to rest. Is it normal to have this RAGE coming out of nowhere? This feeling that everybody wants to rip off his clothes and make the f*ck out of him? I'm so screwed.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I was so possessive of my boyfriend and I always got jealous and angry when he talked to other girls or even just hung out with his friends. I think you're normal. I felt like I wanted to "own" my boyfriend because I wanted control of who he talked to and hung out with. I completely understand that intense rage you get I got that too. Just try to understand that he needs to talk to other people and you can't control his life. Good luck :)

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  • butidontwantone
    13 years ago

    It's normal to be jealous, yes, but I'm not sure if it is to that extent. Maybe you're feeling this way because you don't know if he'll stay faithful to you? Because if you know he's yours and wants to be with you and no one else, you wouldn't get that jealous.

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  • MyTobyBaby
    13 years ago

    I'm the same way.

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Normal to be jealous. Don't get crazy though. I did and I lost my man because of it. Make sure u give him space and let him do his thing or u will lose him. It's ok to be jealous just talk to him about it. Hopefully he will understand. Good luck

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  • blop
    13 years ago

    you should feel flattered that people want him. It's a compliment to you and guess what you are the one with him. Maybe if you talk to him and tell him how you feel, you guys can talk it over and you can see that there is nothing to worry about.

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