Is it normal to want sexual attention

I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 yrs now. we are never alone and it could get frustrating some times. we get paranoid that someone is going to come home and catch us.

we have recently been having sex, but I wouldn't really call it sex bc I'm the one doing all the work. I throw hints that I would like to be touched (in some way or ANY way) but she doesn't get it. this leads me to think that I'm not sexually attractive.

so is it normal to want some kind sexual attention? Is it too much to ask?

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Based on 7 votes (6 yes)
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  • YBNormal

    Since I don't know anything about her, I could be way off the mark here, but maybe she's just shy about things, or uncomfortable initiating stuff?

    I've said it before, but it bears repeating: For great sex, people in love need to use their mouths... TO TALK. Open up and tell her directly how you feel and what you need, and push her to do the same. Communication is the key. And if it turns out that she just needs a little time to get used to initiating, give her that time. Make up a signal that means, "please initiate now" like a smile and wink (yeah, you're still initiating, but let her be the first to unzip your zipper).

    Like I said, I don't know the situation so I may be way off the mark on this one, but I hope I've helped.

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  • i meant to say her pussy my mistake

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  • no dude maybe you should get another girlfriend or lick your pussy ask her what she wants and then maybe she well give you what you want ;)

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