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So my boyfriend and I have sex alot, and although I love the feeling of us taking it slow and making love, but I love to have rough sex too. And not just rough sex, like spanking till I have handprints on me, choking, pulling my hair, forcing me into positions and so on. My boyfriend says it's a lil bit kinky for him but I though it was normal.
What you're describing isn't that rough. Really rough is bloody noses and welts and bruises. There is a whole range to explore. Good if you like it, bad if you don't.
I believe it's still considered rough for most people. I'm the same way and my bf thinks people that like that have issues. WTF I'm sorry I'm not into the whole slow and sweet love making. So seriously he's boring me and apparently I have issues.
It's not issues, it's just tastes. His don't seem to be matching yours.
Being tied up, choked, being forced to do things you wouldn't otherwise do. Having one man or a group of men use you and devour you. It should be pure joy, a terrifying, pleasurable experience where you loose control and have absolute control. Stripped naked in all ways and discovering your inner self.
I like the same thing but some guys are understandably unwilling to go that far. You must find a compromise so you both get what you want and are happy.