Is it normal to want sex often w/ different men & not wanting emotions

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I was young when i first had sex with my boyfriend's older brother (yes I slept around). I also started escorting after high school at college parties and slept with a lot of guys who would give me really expensive gifts. Ive been escorting for several years now and even worked at several brothels in Tijuana and The Bunny Ranch and even done amateur porn scenes. I can honestly say Ive become accustomed to sleeping around with various men each day that Ive always found myself purposely avoiding an emotional connection with anyone I have sex with...Is that normal or not? Ive tried to have normal relationships with guys who dont know I escort but find it difficult to begin to pen myself emotionally enough to feel for another man. Is it normal to not want to feel an emotional connection like that?

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    While you are escorting, you will find it very hard to emotionally connect with any man, particularly one you are "hiding the truth from". I see you have 2 options: 1) give up sex-work and try and have a normal relationship, or 2) find a boyfriend that is willing to accept you work in the sex industry - which will allow you to form an emotional bond more easily (because you won't be constantly lying to him).

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  • yourmindisfuckedup
    7 years ago

    Fuck the emotional connection,its all about the sex!!

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  • AntonioTheBlack
    7 years ago

    everybody likes a good whore

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  • CozmoWank
    7 years ago

    Were you ever sexually abused when you were younger? Sometimes that can contribute to that kind of behavior.
    If you're fine with it, ok. If it bothers you seek professional help.

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  • MrsEdGein
    7 years ago

    The word Slut comes to mind.

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    • oprnminded
      7 years ago

      You do what you feel you must do. When you feel really bad about yourself, think of and respect your positive characteristics. Yes, I will find you on Twitter.

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  • YourAngel
    7 years ago

    Sounds like you need to seek God. Turn your heart over to him and repent your sins to him. But only if you are ready to quit your escort jobs. There are a lot of jobs available in am sure. Sounds like you have some emotional problems within. You are destroying your body with sleeping with a lot of different men. You are not only wearing your body out but also in danger of all kinds of sexual diseases.
    May God bless you! He wants to love you right where you are. We are to love people's hearts and not their sins.

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  • kariann789
    7 years ago

    I think it's normal. Before I got married and wasn't in a relationship I would get it whenever I wanted and they were always different guys and not once caught feelings.

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  • felixy
    7 years ago

    That you don't wish to form emotional bonds with your partners is fine, because it's only going to be increasingly hard to. When a woman sleeps around often, chemistry changes to make commitment more difficult. It's not so different with men, but your looks have a much shorter time limit.

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