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For two years, about 4 times a week in school a guy I've known for a while sexual harassed me in public. He turned me on because I'm very ticklish EVERYWHERE. But I didn't want to be touched at the same time. But a couple years later I've been curious about sex and I've been curious about sex with him. Is it normal?
No. He touched me sexually. He touched my thighs,close to my vagina, my breasts and whispered sexual things he wants to do to me and he also texted me more things. Very detailed. There was this one day during class, I went to sharpen my pencil and he followed me, went behind me..touched my hand with the pencil and stuck it in and out while humping me towards the table from behind.
If you felt you were being sexually harassed why didn't you tell anyone? It seems like you kind of enjoyed the attention in a way subconsciously, which is probably why you want to experience sex with him now. If you feel comfortable doing so with him, then go right ahead. But I do have to admit that he sounds like a sleaze and if you're a virgin, you might want to save your flower for someone who'd make it a pleasant experience for you.
Just because someone doesn't report sexual harrassment/abuse, doesn't mean they enjoyed it.
I understand what you mean. I've tried to tell people but everyone called me dramatic. And like i said, he did it in public, people saw...No one said anything, I told him to stop but he didn't. He is very big and strong, I'm happy he didn't force himself on me any further. I didn't like it at first but I get flashbacks from my past. And now I'm just curious. He's not in my life at all anymore and I'm relieved. Maybe It's just the fact he's the only guy that touched me that way, that makes me think of him. I do want to save myself for someone special but I also want to know what I'm doing for that special someone.