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I just want romance from my husband not all the time but every once in a while. I am tired of everytime he wants sex he just asks do you want to full around. Where is the romance in that? Before anyone asks if it's a money thing it isn't I don't think you have to spend money to be romantic.
Absolutley abnormal, you get married for less than 5 reasons, one of which is to alleviate the burden of romance. Included in those five reasons is loneliness, settling, and self hatred. The fifth reason can only be understood by a person who is married. My recommendation act like a whore with conditions. If you want dinner and a movie act like a whore who doesn't give it up unless they get taken out. But you can't squelch on the deal, you have to actually be that nasty whore once he has given you that romance. I'm talking about being a nasty whore, costumes, hot wax, whatever he wants. Otherwise he will find a whore that will do it without all the pageantry of romance. Words of wisdom. Write that down.
>>>Otherwise he will find a whore that will do it without all the pageantry of romance.
Wow, thats pretty blunt...but true. Women don't realize that when they push a man away they are pushing him into the arms of another woman. And just like a woman, they don't want to take responsibility for their actions and blame the man for getting his natural needs met elsewhere.
you are aboslutely right, it does not have to cost money to romance your partner. i would love to come home one day to find that my boyfriend has written me a romantic note and left it somewhere like in the medicine cabinet where i would find it unexpectedly :)...and yes it is normal to want romance from your partner once in a while, it creates the sense that you are wanted...
im sorry and yes u are completely normal for wanting that from him he should at least try u need to let him know how important this is to u give him a wake up call leave for a weekend and let him know why
You didn't read what I posted did you Discoduck. I don't want candies and flowers. I think you can be romantic without spending money. My husband is my bestfriend he has been since I was 17. I learned to play the video games he likes so that we do things that he likes. This has nothing to do with how much or how little we have sex. I JUST WANT ROMANCE every once in awhile. Guys if you want to go sleeping around because you wife isn't a whore then by all means I hope you get those diseases they carry. Discoduck you sound like a bitter person. Hope you can get some help with that.
I'm not saying I need romance everytime. It would be nice every once in awhile. I tried to have a romantic dinner and I even planned some fun for after but it ended up with him wanting to watch Aliens vs Predator. He says he can't think of anything that is romantic.
Romance is not all its cracked up to be...spend a lot of time and effort and money making a big deal out of nothing.
Want Romance??? Try getting interested in something he likes and do it together, be his best friend. Nothing more romantic than enjoying the things I like to do most with my wife. These are the types of things Bonds are made of, not Roses or Candy or Candles.
So you are thinking that your lack of a sex drive is because you are not getting enough romance?
Nah, that won't do it either, you can try but 9 times out of 10 it won't last for very long. Just do what every other woman does, complain about having sex so much that he just stops trying. It might take awhile, but sooner or later he'll stop wanting sex from you...but that won't make you happy either. Oh well, its all apart of being a woman, never happy...and all a part of being a man, damned if you do damned if you don't.
Yep, it's normal. I've been married 30 years and the romance is gone. A long time ago. I would love to get flowers for just because. I've mentioned it before. Once when my hysband went to the cemetery he brought me back funeral flowers. Is that romantic? NO. I guess I shouldn't complain. He thought of me. But I hear what you are saying.